She had a DNA test done on the baby and it didn't match my DNA. What do I do? And who possibly could be the father?
2006-09-27 06:58:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm the father.
We're moving to Mexico next week, so I would start looking for a new girlfriend.
2006-09-27 07:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend is pregnant still with the baby there is no way she could have did a dna test you would have to wait till after the baby is born maybe she is just saying that because she cheated on you and shes not sure that it is yours and the father could be anybody that she slept with around the time that she got pregnant as for what do you do you do what you feel is in your heart if you wanna be with her then except the baby as yours its not the babys fault anyways but I say once a cheater always a cheater I say leave the hoe and find you someone good for you.
2006-09-27 07:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices here you can 1) Get out now and don't look back . or 2) you can be a great father to an innocent child that you can help shape into a wonderful person. the DNA only matters if you let it . ask yourself if you really love her and if this is what you really want long term. If the answer is no then go now before the child is hurt.
2006-09-27 07:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i didnt know they could do DNA testing before the baby was born?!?! She needs to come clean and tell the truth. Its totally up to you if you still want to be with her but she has proven herself untrustworthy, i think comtinuing this relationship will only cause pain, especially after the baby is born if the real father is a part of the baby's life.
2006-09-27 07:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by sea_sher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest asking her who the father is and then figuring out how she wants to raise her child. It's up to you if you want to be this baby's father or not.
Personally? Ditch that chick now while you still can. That sucks that she would cheat on you like that and you wouldn't have had the baby tested if you didn't at least suspect something was wrong.
2006-09-27 07:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I can't tell you who the father is because I don't know. The question is, what are you going to do?...Are you going to stay and be supportive and get past this or are you going to end the relationship?...Those are the two most important questions...... And I guess you can base your answer on the circumstances surrounding the pregnancy. Like were you with her at the time, did you guys separate for a while?...Good luck....
2006-09-27 07:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by pregnant & praying now has baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can't do a DNA test until the baby is born. I would have the test done then if I were you .
2006-09-27 07:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and her need to have a talk. How does it make you feel? Do you still love her? The child? Are you up to raising the baby as your own?
I'm sure it's flipped your world upside down, so the best thing would be to talk. Get everything out, cover every possible question or feeling you're having.
There's nothing wrong with you wanting to stay and absolutely nothing wrong with you wanting to leave her.
2006-09-27 07:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by PrettyProblem 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The dad could be anybody. If the baby isnt a product of rape than Id leave if I were you.Not only did she cheat but how dare she risk pregnancy. She obviously didnt protect herself and she couldve brought some Syphilis home to you. Very inconsiderate,as if spreading her legs for another man wrent bad enough. Ditch the Biatch,dont turn back,ang hold out for a woman who knows where she belongs. With her man.
2006-09-27 07:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought the baby had to be born before you could test DNA.
2006-09-27 07:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋