instead of cheating on her boyfriend she pretends that her boyfriend is the guy she's crushing after while they're having sex lol would you rather you bf, or gf cheat on you or pretend you're someone else while you're with them?
2006-09-27 06:30:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If I found out about either they would be out the door.
2006-09-27 08:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by Scully 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many people fantasize about other people all the time... I would rather my lady be with me and think of someone else... Than go be with someone else.... I am here to please my woman, Imagination is a turn on.... Haven't any of you roll played?
At least I know that I'm the one doing the pleasing... Plus who would know if the people your imagining who be as good as your lover is in bed......
2006-09-27 14:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by mylife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm conflicted. I like costumes and role-play sometimes ("Martha Stewart in Prison!"), and at least theoretically, I believe, like Frank on "Everybody Loves Raymond," that "it doesn't matter where a woman works up an appetite as long as she eats at home."
Yet I have to be very present and in the moment with whoever I'm having sex with. I have to be all about me and *them* when it comes right down to it. I couldn't do that to the person I'm with. If I didn't want to be with *them*, I wouldn't be with them.
2006-09-27 14:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is pretty cool. At least she's still only sleeping with her BF and not out sleeping with an actual crush. I might need to try this. Sounds like a cool "theme" for the night. :)
2006-09-27 13:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Adri 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Life's too short to spend your time with someone other than the one you truly want. That's why I divorced my first wife and tracked down the girl I carried a torch for back in high school....Now we're married with a beautiful little boy, and life has just been one grand adventure ever since!
2006-09-27 13:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's just like saying having sex with an STD ?or rather do it yourself?. You can't control People's mind. That's their rights to whatever they want to imagine or fantasize within not you telling them. So be it.
2006-09-27 13:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by javo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
id rather my girl friend just told me what she was thinking. maybe then we could spice it up and she wouldnt have to feel that way, or, maybe we could role play and i could pretend to be this other woman, although i doubt that would sit too kindly with me!!!!
2006-09-27 14:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by milliekinillie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Neither...I don't care who he fantasizes about when he's alone..but I don't want to be just a warm(hot?) body....and no I don't want him to cheat on me either...at least not without us talking about it first...I think he would approach me first to do that.
2006-09-27 13:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its right but I cant admit that my thoughts are always on my bf
2006-09-27 13:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
good question! my motto is what you see is what you get. if we make love and she thinks of another guy that's a little wierd for me. if she told me after we made love about it i'd say, so you weren't getting off over me? then why are you with me? you claim you love me but you're not attracted to me? i'd be thinking wtf?
2006-09-27 14:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by thee wojc 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋