I have a friend, thats say Sara. While she was talking to a guy names, Mike. Will before she started talkin to him. He tried talking to me, but she told me that she liked him, so even though i liked him, i stayed quiet. untell one day me and him where hanging out, and just started making out. should i tell her, its been a couple of months, but i don't know what to do. she has a new boyfriend now, and so do i. but i'm afraid she'll get mad at me.
2006-09-27 06:24:22 · 29 answers · asked by jess08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do you really want to start a fight? dont tell her if you both have new boyfriends that arent that guy just let it go
2006-09-27 06:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ssoroka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion on this would be to forget it! What happened in the past can stay in the past! To begin with; if she is truly your friend, that should of never happened to begin with, and you should never of allowed it to go that far! She will resent you for it and you will lose her friendship for being unfaithful to her! You made a big mistake by what you did, but out of all honesty, you can never right a wrong, you just learn as you go, so hopefully you were taught a valuable lesson and don't ever make the same mistakes again! Sometimes, what's happened in the past should stay in the past! What she don't know won't hurt her, but knowing could tear her apart!
2006-09-27 13:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by shelly_mo67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if u both have moved on then just dont say anything unless u feel guilty and feel that u need to tell her. U sholdnt look @ stuff 4rm the past. Look @ wuts ahead of u. U both have new boyfriends so even if u tell her, it shouldnt matter 2 her.
2006-09-27 13:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Young Diamond Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are she would get mad at you, and probably not trust you around her boyfriends any more. Why risk your friendship with her over something (some boy) who's no longer in the picture for either of you?
2006-09-27 13:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by ScubaGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Bad girl!!! any way didn't you thinm twice ebfore doing thatz, my suggestion face the music or else stay with this guilt forever and you don't want that so tell her the truth if you realy are her friend.Courage.
Good luck!
2006-09-27 13:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will be mad, but if it continues to make you feel bad get it of your chest and try to earn her trust back. Remember that it would probably be better for her NOT to know so if you can keep it to yourself and feel ok, do that.
2006-09-27 13:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her, live with the guilt, she didn't do anything wrong and DON'T do it again! Any girl that gets with her friends' man is nothing but a hoochy mamma
2006-09-27 13:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by heartache 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, if she gets mad, she will have 3 options.
- Get over it
- Get used to it
- or deal with it.
2006-09-27 13:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her just keep quiet and never do anything like that again.
2006-09-27 13:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask this mike not ot tell her and u don say a word a bout it if she ask u juz deny it
2006-09-27 13:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋