my best friend is 53 yrs old. She's all sprung out on this woman to the point of OBSESSION. The chick she loves is a total tweeker though and she just got out of jail. the tweeker has a " wife" that's also in jail that she wants to be with. In the meantime she's totally using my best friend and leading her on. When she was in jail they obviously made her sober up and it seemed like she was going to get her **** together but for the past month I know she's been tweeking again. She's still on probation and she lives with jail women (i don't know what those places are called) Whatever I can't stand this white trash tweeker ******! ok the worst part is my friend is so in love with her and this crackhead is just using my friend until her "wife" gets out of jail and she's been asking my best friend to do meth with her. my friend said no for the first couple of times, but lately she's given in and tweeked with the crackhead. my best friend is 53, i'm so worried. should i call the jail and...
2006-09-27 06:07:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
should i call the jail and tell them i know she's on drugs and i want her busted because she's a bad influence on my friends? if they piss test her they will throw her back in jail for sure! i'm not a rat, but what would you do if someone was hurting your best friend like that? thnx
2006-09-27 06:08:31 · update #1
if i just talk to the tweeker, pull her aside and tell her to stay the ***** away from my friend. i think my friend would get mad at me becasue she's alllllllllll in loooove ugh maybe i should just stay out of it, and let her be a crackhead too?
2006-09-27 06:13:31 · update #2
A TWEEKER OR TWEAKER HOWEVER U SPELL IT, OR A CRACKHEAD IS SOMEONE THAT DOES METH OR OTHER NASTY DRUGS
2006-09-27 12:51:06 · update #3
she's 53, old enough to make her own decisions, and rattin on someone could get your *** in more **** than your friend is in right now, maybe talk to your friend and let her know you're worried
2006-09-27 06:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would call them annonomusly and let them know all the details that you know because the longer your friend is mixed up in this the more chance she has of getting hooked and loosing everyting she has.... then what service have you done her... you have the choice right now to do something good for her.. you may loose her as your friend but you may be saving her life... and that is so much more than saving a friendship at the risk of loosing her life...
I would definately report it...
take the high moral ground .. report it.
Blessings to you and your friend,
RiahWillow
2006-09-27 14:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by RiahWillow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think calling her in is a tough call. Whatever you end up doing, I'd start with a major talk with your friend. Tell her she's different, you never would have expected this behavior from her, and that you have a serious problem with it. Try NOT to make it about the methhead; just tell her she's changed and let her make the connection as to when.
2006-09-29 02:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur friend is 53 u know what that **** can do to her yea call the jail annoymous tip help ur friend b4 its too late. i know what is like to have a crackhead friend once her wife is out of jail they will be tog and ur friend will ending up having nothing, make her see now b4 its too late
2006-09-27 13:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by EiaMaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do whatever I thought I could to save a friend...mind you you stand the risk of seriously damaging your friendship at least for a while...but if you really care about your friend then do it...she obviously can't see what's happening.
2006-09-27 13:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes... I would call them anonymously and tell them the down low.. Your friend will have plenty of time away from her once she is back in jail... and then she will realize that she is making stupid choices for a druggie...... TELL TELL TELL....People Friends don't let friends drink and drive..... Friends don't let friends become crack heads... For ***** Sakes.... CALL NOW..
2006-09-27 14:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a hard one - but to go through this concious clear - u should probably voice your problems with the meth addict first....
Welll yeah ^ sort of what baller says. Perhaps u should talk it out with both of them.
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Think about it differently. Let them make that descision for you. Go tell them your predicament - don't go in wavign your arms and screaming. Rather, take them both to coffee, and tell them "Listen, I can't deal with this anymore, choose. " then its in the bag - perhaps u can tell her alone too. It will work better it u tell them togehter methinks.
2006-09-27 13:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by Cybertrash2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's a tuff choice. this could be seen as betraying your friend or being a really good friend to look after her. i think if she wont listen to you then hey why not call the cops when it comes down to it she is doing drugs
2006-09-27 13:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would definately call the jail and tell them to test her, she needs help and rehab and she doen't need to get out until she is sober, you would actually be doing her a great service, i know what your going through
2006-09-27 13:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What the hell is a tweeker?
2006-09-27 16:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋