i want to ask this girl out but i dont know where to take her. it would be my first date and i dont no what to talk about.
2006-09-27 05:28:48 · 14 answers · asked by basher88888888 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you should take her out to the movies or go do something that you knwo she enjoys doing......my first date was nervewracking too, if you wanna talk anout something, just talk about her family, her hobbies,and if she says something that you do too, wait til she takes a pause in her talking to say that you do that too...after that, if she likes ice cream,take her to an ice cream parlor and if she has an eyelash when you guys are walking home together, if she has an eyelash on her, stop and say you have an eyelash on ur cheek, you pick it off and hold it in front of her and say, make a wish.....most likely she will wish taht you give her a goodnight kiss home or something more extravagant thn that...
neway, i hope this helps
2006-09-27 05:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by hawaiigrl33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best place to go on a first date is some where public, so your date feels comfortablle around you because she feels she's safe. Meaning you wont try any funny business in public. As far as what to say...I can tell you this..Don't think about what your gonna say. When you plan it out it sounds insincere and fake. Act like the girl is a friend of yours and try to relax yourself. If you're relaxed...she will be too.But most importantly, be yourself, and be real. If you try to act more attractive, or any different then you really are...then if she gets with you and you start acting like yourself again...she might not like the person you really are. Good luck brother, be confident.
2006-09-27 05:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ronijn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go to dinner! Unless you're really set on it. Going out to dinner is the typical "date" place. You're going to be constantly thinking, This is a date, this is a date. Go somewhere casual, like a park or something. This way you'll be able to talk with her and you both can open up more easily.
2006-09-27 05:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by italia_azure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are young then maybe a movie or putt-putt golf. Don't talk about anything too serious and don't pour your heart out about problems in your life... A date is supposed to be fun (especially the first one). And what is wrong with asking her where she would like to go or what she wants to do??? Find out what she enjoys and likes.
2006-09-27 05:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by Just being myself! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where you go depends on what she is like and what your goal is. If you like her then take her somewhere you can talk. If you just want to get laid then take her someplace you can talk but will also arouse her (music is good, alcohol, dancing or whatnot depending on the girl).
remember. First dates are interviews.
2006-09-27 05:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a movie. You can sit and watch the movie and then talk about it after while you are eating. That should lead to other things to talk about. Good luck and have fun.
2006-09-27 05:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by dr's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, you should take her out for a walk in the park, so it's not the typical boring movie date, and tell her that its your first date to break th eice-from there the conversation will flow.
2006-09-27 05:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dinner and a walk is always good. It gives you more time to learn about each other. Movie can sometimes be a bad Idea.
2006-09-27 05:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by heidischu2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well bring her to a not so fancy restaurant
talk about anything under the sun but less about sex i bet it will be fine go with the flow
2006-09-27 05:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we went to the movies then a walk around the park. we talked what we liked and stuff like that
2006-09-27 05:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by mommie2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋