2006-09-27 05:20:15 · 19 answers · asked by jomamma2399 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
1)Try looking into things that would turn you on. Watch an adult movie with your husband...try different toys..the experimentation can be quite exciting...2)Do you have children? My husband and I have to leave the house because I'm just a cold fish when I am around the kids. Theres no-way I can have any sexual thought anywhere near me when the kids are around. Try getting more time alone together. ....3) Whiskey...works everytime!
2006-09-27 05:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get a complete workup/checkup from your doctor. Discuss the lack of sex drive also. It could be hormonal or emotional. You really should be in your prime at 35 wanting sex all the time like most men. Women get this boost in their 30's that lasts well into their 50's sometimes. Whatever you do, don't let it fall by the wayside.
2006-09-27 05:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of sex will end a marriage - don't kid yourself into believing otherwise. Think of it as a task like laundry or cooking; it's just something that you've got to do.
Having said that, you can't just lay there like a corpse either. Pretend to be into it for the time being. You may find you come to enjoy it, but if not, a visit to a sex therapist may be the answer.
2006-09-27 05:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Irish Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tricky. My belief is that in a marriage, it's a man's job to take care of his wife sexually, however, men still need that closeness. If you have a good husband, sex is an expression of his love for you and it's mostly unselfish.
My first reaction to your question was - get over it and get into action - I'm not saying 7 days a week - I'm just saying get into the process of giving yourself a little prod, a little nudge. You may not exactly feel like doing it, but maybe the act of doing something for your hubby, something unselfish, will get you in the mood. Maybe you'll discover that you can get your motor running from wanting to please him - getting pleasure for yourself.
But don't do it out of guilt; do it because you want to. Sex is important in a marriage.
FP
2006-09-27 05:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you mean that you are not sexually attracted to your husband (in which case join the club!)
Or do you mean that you are not sexually attracted to anyone?
If you go to a marriage counsellor or sex therapist they will discuss the problem with you and suggest activities that will put the sexual spark back into your marriage.
If you go to any large bookshop you will find lots of books with advice on the subject as well.
2006-09-27 05:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try the supplement L-arginine.
Two well qualified brands: ArginMax for Women, and PL L-Arginine have both passed Consumer Lab tests.
Check with your local pharmacy.
2006-09-27 05:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. "D" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None at all?? or none with this guy? If it is the later, try new things and places. There's a world of scenarios, positions, techniques and locations to explore
2006-09-27 05:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by jmh416 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend of mine was having this problem. we did some research online and found some herbal supplements that did the trick. the combination of a few supplements from the natualt foods store made all the dofference for her. i can't remember what she used, but just search online using search terms like: female sex drive natural remedies; female sex drive natural supplements; female libido herbal remedies; etc.
2006-09-27 05:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 35 and don't have a sex drive! See an expert....your wasting your life!
2006-09-27 05:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by Fitforlife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-11-20 17:12:07 · answer #10 · answered by Acquila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋