2006-09-27 04:40:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I see nothing terribly wrong with cuddling and carsessing.
Fondling becomes a moralist issue. Fondling always implies sexual undertones. Backside, chest, etc.
It's unclear if religions actually forbid this. Definately intimate contact or contact that is based on skin, not outer clothing (you said fondling not petting), however it can, as people here point out, lead to other things.
Petting is usually fobidden by most religions outside of marriage.
You didn't specify age or anything.
Understand, ALL such actions build up tension in a boy. Tension he is pushed by his own body to relieve. As a result he pushes the girl to "do it" because the closeness and exciting is just too much for him to take.
This is what a male is designed to do. Find a female and do it.
It is the job of a female to limit contract until she finds a male she really wants to stay with forever and do it with.
Girls were designed to say "no" far easiers than guys are. Guys will say "yes" incredibly fast. Faster than the speed of ligth.
The younger you are, the more such close contact wears into your judgement and softens your "no" into a yes, because this is also the way it is. A girls body eventually tells her to do it also.
It's about the mind being stronger than the body. Guys have no mind at all. Girls do. But even a girls mind can get worn down.
If you're going to continue, I'd say put a limitation on it. Have some time outs. Sit apart. Stand apart. Give your body and their body a chance to normalize.
I would not go any further than where you already are, until you know more about life.
2006-09-27 05:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That depends on your age and the extent of the caressing and fondling. You don't want it to get out of hand, but some kissing and hand holding is appropriate for older teens.
2006-09-27 04:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be very carefull what you do before marriage caressing and fondling can lead to other things and its obvious that you are not ready for all of that and dont forget about all of the diseases you could contract if you go farther than that
2006-09-27 04:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to be able to stop yourself? If you are choosing to wait until married. Caressing and fondling may lead to more. Good Luck
2006-09-27 04:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly is like asking in case you could play with sparks round open bins of gas, on condition that lit matches are so risky. existence is about better than sex. A loving marriage will continuously have opportunities for better intimacy once you haven't enable sexual force and fervour be the chief. enable love be the chief and fervour will continuously stick with. Love is defined in 1st Corinthians financial disaster 13 contained in the Holy Bible. you'll locate it does no longer describe sex there.
2016-12-02 04:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your self control. I dated a guy for 3 1/2 years in high school and we never had sex. We just touched. If you can do that, then it's ok, but it;s a dangerous situation!
2006-09-27 04:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by glitz_and_glitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I think it is fine. Just do what you are comfortable with. If you are very religious though it might be against your religion, I don't know. Just have fun and if you decide to have sex then use protection.
2006-09-27 06:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by italianbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For mature adults in a relationship it's fine.
2006-09-27 08:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok as long as it doesn't go as far as that. Save the sex act for marriage.
2006-09-27 06:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i'm sure you have heard that all boys want is sex.......that is true. if you are waiting until marriage....then yes it is a bad thing that you will regret years down to road if it leads to more
2006-09-27 06:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋