hello people i am very bad at talking with women and keepin the conversation is very very hard for me. all i want to know is is what thay want to hear and why. so please please help us
2006-09-27 04:18:29 · 9 answers · asked by vraj y 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
The fact that you're bad at talking to women is going to be an asset. Women don't like men who take over and talk about themselves and their opinions and their life all the time. those men think they're comfortable talking to women, but in fact we all have a secret appreciation for the shy man who doesn't just sit there, but asks open end questions and lets us talk. Do that and you'll not only get off the hook as far as com,ing up with stuff to say, and she'll love the fact that you care about what she thinks and what she want s to say. WIn/win situation. Good luck
2006-09-27 04:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no typical topic that women 'want to hear', just normal conversation about things that interest which they can then respond to if the topic interests them also. What do you speak about to women in your family? Don't be shy to reveal your personality, to give your opinions, and to ask questions, but only questions to which you are genuinely interested in hearing the answer to.
2006-10-01 03:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by Pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat them like you would other people. We are not some kind of aliens. Don't try to tell women what you think they want to hear, tell them what you want to tell them. Tell them whatever comes to mind, so you get a spontaneous conversation. Women like it when a man is a bit shy and not overconfident. It's okay to say stupid things, or to stutter, it doesn't matter, you don't have to be perfect. Just be yourself, and whatever you do, don't take yourself too seriously.
2006-09-28 11:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Louise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the focus on her at all times. When the going gets tough just look at her and sigh. when she looks puzzled, just tell her you cannot believe how lovely she looks, especially those eyes. Then ask about her mum or dad's eyes. Remind her that should she ever need eye correction, she should try contacts before specs because it would be a shame to hide those eyes.
2006-09-27 04:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by acm Pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find common ground and shared interests. Just talk to a woman who has similar interests as you do. That will make the conversation go smoothly. Just make sure you have a common interest and don't suddenly make one up.
2006-09-27 10:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by mac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Common sense has the common sense answer but, bear in mind, with most women you can't get a word in edgewise anyway.
2006-09-27 04:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask them questions about them and ask them question about family, friends and hobbies. Just keep cool and have a good old chin wag.
2006-09-27 04:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by gemmaloveschris06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to let them discuss something of intrest to them.start by asking some polite questions such as their hobbies;then you are on the right track!
2006-09-27 04:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by HIPPI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them questions about themselves, their interests, their family etc. etc. Most people like to talk about themselves...
2006-09-27 04:21:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋