I've tried everything keepng myself busy in various activities, i also keep reminding myself that how he is no good for me.He keep insulting me but my luv for him is not ending anywhere. I am addicted to his voice.
2006-09-27 03:42:48 · 21 answers · asked by roshni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi Roshni,
Hoota hai dost, kuch logg bass nahi samajthey.....I can understand ur situation....bass dost, aapni aap ko mazboot banaoo, joo gayaa ussko jaane doo....zindagi nahi rukti hai....be strong, stay strong, say to yourself that you are strong(if u love someone and they dont like u calling, for the love u have 4 them, stop calling...unnki khushi mai aapni khushi dekhoo and dont call)....matt giraoo aapne aap ko kisse ki nazar mai, kahen aaisa kartey kartey aap aapni nazar mai neechey naa hoo jaoo...ek baat soocho yaar, jiss ko aap ki parwah nahi, bass unkaa kuch nahi hoo saktaa, bhagwaan bhi unko badal nahi saktaa.....all the best dost, bhagwaan aap ko shakti dee....try to read Autobiography of a Yogi, good book, online pad saktey hoo aap, interesting book hai and it will divert ur mind...take care and bye.
2006-09-27 05:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by aryavadh@yahoo.co.in 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Baby girl. I feel you but you got to shake it off you must make yourself move on.Mind over matter delete the number he doesn't love you but you love yourself.Do some step work start exercising everytime you think about him take a taebo class or something go to the library. Write a journal express what you are feeling write down the bad things he has said to you read them when you hear his voice.Men will drive you crazy girl but you have to learn to turn the other cheek to stay strong and move right along.Another one bites the dust don't give up it's just not your season for him
2006-09-27 10:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by Nai Nai 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to do something that will help you understand that it is over. He has moved on, but now you need to. This sounds kind of off center, but I have had friends that are girls do this and they have said that it worked well for them. Collect any pictures and items that he has given you, movie ticket stubs that you have collected from when you were together and other memorabilia. Take them and find a barrel, light a fire and burn them. Let go of each memory as you toss the items in and when you are done, you will have purged all the material memories of him from your room, house or where ever you have them. Then it is time to move on and find someone that wants you as much as you want them....good luck...
2006-09-27 10:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like any attdiction you have to leave it all at once! you cant call once in a while to hear his voice, u r only hurting yourself by doing this. i think you should stop cold turkey! when u feel the need to call him, call a freind instead, this guy, as u say, has closed the book on you. so why do this to yourself. go out meet other ppl and guys, and take it one day at a time, like when u get up tell your self i am not calling him today and stick to it. the next day do the same thing.
2006-09-27 10:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by trish p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually if u follow our indian culture sincerely all this problems wont arise. we have to be honest to ourself family first. they give solid protection for ur emotional wall. u must not believe anybody outside until they r ready to marry. here only all problems would start. not only love anger fear attachment attraction afectioon to any other relationship would make internal bond very seriously. since humans do have these soul mechanism inside. they have to follow social rules strictly. life is not commercial. anybody cannot play games with feelings. no court in the wqorld cannot give solution to this. here one more dangerous point is there. suppose if u start taking revenge or hatred hate anger against him would make u to fallin big loophole from which very difficult to get. whats the solution is. shift attention to work family relations materialistic friends. dont depend for emotional needs out side of family. once this is revealed to outsiders. thy would treat it like sex affair further loosing the daMAGE OF IMAGE. IF U R REALLY IN THIS SOUP. U MUST TAKE VERY SERIOULY LIFE. THEN U HAVE TO FOLLOW ONE GURULIKe nirmalamataji sahajayoga technique. that meditation bhajans purify ur internal system u would get opportunity to mix with good people. then trust god immensely. spend maximum 4-5 hours daily namasmaramna visiting temples . then concentrate max on work academics profession money gives solid protection technically. read good books on personality dvp ,. 7 habits of highly effective people. positive thinking thnk annd grow rich. next never surrender your emotions to any one except god. surendrering means pscho slavery. revealing personal problems to others would disturb your own trials to come back into life. dvp hobby like music dance painting . also good solution. spend time with children visit tourist places r also ok.
2006-09-27 15:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by meenakshim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok it sound like you have somethings you need to get out so you can get on with your life. Try letting it all fly. Tell him everything you feel and desire. When it is all out in the open, one of two things will happen. You will either be so embarrassed to go around him. Or if he doesn't reciprocate, you will be mad as hell. Either way you will be through with him.
2006-09-27 10:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by hawkespatricia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Another chapter has been opened then that is natural last one must be closed..and it will be flipped over again &again ..Life is change...you have to accept it...u r reminding him past chapter..So he can't forget his past ..but this type of ppl don't know the feelings, they don't care.about u.. Only u hurt yourself a lot.better u stay out of this..
2006-09-27 11:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh My God, I am really worried 'bout u...
Do something buddy - make some new frens - girl frens - boy frens n enjoy ur life - life is beautiful n all urs - don't urself for a bloody **** person...
Its he who has lost the true love - U dont stand losing anything...
2006-09-27 19:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by simi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emotions are something very diff. to control and to have a healthy mind we must not let our emotions take over us and it is easy to say but i know it is very diff. to do but try and never give and always think against him [ the person u like ] just keep telling ur self that he is not useful and which makes his impression on ur mind go down. keep on trying it is a slow process but worth trying
2006-09-27 11:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by chocolates1001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you maybe addicted to his voice but your love for yourself and the sanity of your mind should be enough for you to let go.. Girl I am listening to the song you need to breathe.... Heather Headly "Me time".... that is what you are lacking... you need to take some time out to find everything you lost in that relationship... Start going to hang out with your girl friends... Go get your hair and nails done and go out... I am sure there are some Men out there that find you attractive you just have to get out...
2006-09-27 11:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by Shonda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋