So what if you truly felt and thought someone was the one, However they love you bunches, but you truly feel and know that in their heart of hearts they dont feel the same?
2006-09-27 03:36:03 · 23 answers · asked by BeautyMark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If they love you bunches then maybe give them time because it took time for you to know he/she was the one whether that was a day or 10 years.Some people just take it real slow.As long as they dont have feelings for someone else . I would wait it out (although not too long) and give them time but first I would talk to the person and see how they really felt in their own words then decide if I was gonna stay or go.
Good Luck love is hard!
2006-09-27 03:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by impala1972 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say what "feel the same" means. It's rare that two people will have exactly the same kinds or intensity of feelings about each other. ("Do you love me as much as I love you?" is an impossible question to answer.) For the sake of a long-term relationship, that's not really the point, anyway. Do you enjoy being with each other? Do you communicate well? Do you share similar goals and ambitions? Do you make each other laugh? Do you pay attention to each other's needs, particularly in the little things? When you do disagree (and you will), can you fight productively? (that's a biggie) It's things like that that will determine whether or not your relationship can last.
So if they're willing to be in a relationship with you, and it's going well, don't worry about whether they match your ardor heartbeat for heartbeat. If they love someone else *more* -- now, that's a different matter entirely, and in that case it's best to cut your losses and keep looking, there's another one out there who will be even more "the one" than this one was.
2006-09-27 03:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by smendler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, okay and another answer for you. If you KNOW IN YOUR HEART OF HEARTS they don't feel the same, bunches of love is not enough. Where is the rest of that love gonna find itself going? Somewhere where it will break your heart, that's where. I thought a guy was the one, but he failed to agree and so I failed to answer my door to him, or my phone. Then... in stepped my current husband. It's so easy to give in but don't. Don't settle for less that what you WANT and are expecting. Expectancy is everything. I suggest making a list of what you want, reading the definition of true LOVE ( 1 corinthians 13:4 ) and listening to Ready for Love by india.arie... set up the energy to get you focused and ready for the real thing. Especially when it comes to a MAN, I say in order to be marriable, he has got to be bonkers, head over heels and absolutely crazy about you, or it just won't be enough for a lasting, happy and successful union. I would pass. Sorry, honey. True love will come.
2006-09-27 03:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you must let them go. I was in a situation very similar to that 4 yrs. ago. Relationship lasted 2 years, we met when I was 22 and he was 29. He loved me the second he saw me and I struggled to feel the same way about him. I finally did reach a point where I loved him, but I could not marry him. When he wanted to propose, I had to tell him it couldn't go any further then this. He confessed that all he wanted was for me to be happy. Do the right thing and release him.
2006-09-27 03:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I continually suggested an identical element. No adult adult males with youthful toddlers. i did not favor to cope with it. yet, my husband has a son from his first marriage and that i'd not commerce him for something. we've a son at the same time, and my son easily worships his brother. Being a step-make sure is an fairly problematic pastime although. it really is problematic, from time to time you sense the youngster is extra important than you're, and then there is the ex component. in case you adore this woman, you're going to adore those toddlers like your own in time. I say flow for it. it would nicely be the suitable element it really is ever occurred to you and those youthful toddlers sound like they want a sturdy male function type of their existence. Be him.
2016-11-24 22:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot possibly know what is in another's heart. Not to mention the fact that if you truly know someone is the one then you would also know it's mutual....why would you ever think someone was the "one" if you didn't belive it was reciprocal...your question almost doesn't make sense.
2006-09-27 03:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When they are truly the one. You will know it and there will be no doubt in your head at all. You will not be able to imagine a future without them in it.
2006-09-27 03:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that the feelings are not mutual, address the other party. Assess the situation with ease.
2006-09-27 03:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by big_strong_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay friends if u can and move on. waiting will only make it worse for u and break your heart later. u cant make someone feel something they don't feel.
2006-09-27 03:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know that they feel the same then they are not the one.
2006-09-27 03:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋