she thinks that i should do everything for nothing and i dotn think it is right, she walks over me
2006-09-27 03:27:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh no don't let that happen it time to but your feet down let her no who is the boss. by letting her no right from wrong. i want you to say look we have been friends for a while and i will stick with you forever as long as you don't play me like a dummy.
2006-09-27 04:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all-she's not your friend! She's a user and abuser! Friends don't take advantage of one another like that! Drop her and when she finally asks what's up, be honest and let her know how you feel. If she is your friend she will change her ways or at least try! If she doesn't no big loss-let her find someone else to use!
2006-09-27 10:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by dodlydink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
story of my life. do unto others as you want others to do unto you. i know. my philosophy is this: if someone is constantly doing something to you that you dont like, the only way to make that person see from your point of view is to put that person in the same situation they have put you. let them know how it makes you feel when they do it to you. or you could just confront her about it whenever she does something you dont like. its hard, you're friends. but if she was really your friend, and really loved you, she would understand and try to change. otherwise, save yourself the stress and drop her.
2006-09-27 10:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by nicekitty_meeooww 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new friends that respect you. True friends don't walk all over you.
2006-09-27 10:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them know your feelings. Tell them that you hate it. If they are your true friends, then they will respect your honesty and do something about it. If they don't then ditch them. They are probably just using you if they don't do anything after you told them.
2006-09-27 10:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by missyloowho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my problem is almost the same what u do is tell her how u feel and if she dont like it thats her just dont do it because friends not suppose to do that to each other and if she dont understand leave here alone because some friend dont appreciate the one that love them thanks 4 listening
2006-09-27 10:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by Shanta e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOn't be friends with her anymore. Your friends should be good people that you respect and that also respect you. Why would you want them around otherwise??
2006-09-27 10:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's about time that you assert your self. It is your own fault if you
let this happen. It is question of self worth. YOU ARE IMPORTANT. Start believing this, then others will too. Good Luck.
2006-09-27 11:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by bernice l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explainn to her your feelings, and if she does not reconize and validate what you are saying, go friend another friend. You DO NOT need to be a door mat for anyone...
2006-09-27 10:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by Jamaison D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are true friend then you should express your concerns. If she is true she will change her behavior once she finds out that she is hurting you
2006-09-27 10:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by deanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋