my mate was close to me, he decided to make me a scapegoat infront of all college mates to fit in, what do i do
2006-09-27 03:24:54 · 37 answers · asked by Hunter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Walk away m8, you will always see you day with people like that. Plenty of new friends out there, just choose more carefully......
2006-09-27 03:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult situation to find yourself in. If I were you I would talk to your friend and ask him why he did what he did and also ask him how he would feel if you did the same to him. If he listens to you and takes notice and realises he made a mistake maybe he deserves the benefit of the doubt. However if he just shrugs it off as not a big deal then maybe your better off without your "mate".
2006-09-27 03:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give Him Points
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2006-09-27 03:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by Romeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you are not happy with the way that he handled the situation. Then, if he does it again, recognize that this is not the type of person that you want to be "mates" with.. and move on.
2006-09-27 03:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with him and tell him how much you don't appreciate that. Decide how much you really want to be friends with him and go from there. It says a lot about his character though so I'd be wary from here on out.
2006-09-27 03:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not real true friend then !!! Get rid and find other mates....he'll soon realise he was being a ******** !! What goes around come round x
2006-09-27 03:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be his mate, or at least try to find out why he did this to you, only you can decide if friendship can be regained, sometimes we all make mistakes, your friend may really be regretting acting as he did, give him the opportunity if you can to explain.
2006-09-27 05:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need that kind of treatment,and He doesn't think much of you or He wouldn't have treated you this way...Find some one who appreciates you and that will uphold you in front of others not put you down for their own selfish interest.
2006-09-27 03:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by elizabeth s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him stay away, you dont need to be horrible to him be polite etc - because you dont want that sort of hassle at college really.
just keep your distance from now on and find better friends, that way he is the dumb one and you have carried your life on regargless of the little t u r d!
xx
2006-09-27 03:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by princesssp8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a mate a lot like that, just move on don't give him the time of day. you'll find new mates soon, he just ain't worth it!
2006-09-27 03:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋