well she was my best friend but we've grown apart then we got back to our old ways then now we are growing apart once again.
the way it was with her one boyfriend "George" was that she would spent all the free time with him. she would stay up to late hours and he'd stay over. or she'd say something is wrong and there he is. if i'd ask if she wanted to do something she'd be like "oh 'george' and i have something planed"
i told her from day one i didn't like him but i'll support the relationship. they broke up because "i don't have time for a girlfriend". Now he's back with his ex.
now her current boyfriend "Joe". She lives at his appartment at his college with his cousin and her friend. She never has time anymore...again.Just because we go to different schools it doesn't matter. we live less than 3 min. from one another. But she'd rather be with him.
why would someone chose a guy over a friend? we've been friends since we were very little.....
2006-09-27 03:24:09 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i have a boyfriend too. we've been together since january(and friends for 4 years before dating). i spent lots of time with my friends and he didn't really care as long as i was faithful to him.
2006-09-27 03:36:31 · update #1
Yeah you are correct hat IS supposed to be the rule! Some girls unfortunately need a lot of male attention to make them feel loved and wanted. It's a psychological thing. She is making the wrong choice because ones girls will always be around where as guys come and go. I used to have a friend like this and honestly I had to make myself LESS available to her because I got tired of being her back up plan when plans with her boyfriend(s) fell thru. Unfortunately some girls just don't understand what real friendship is about. This is her loss you sound like a really great girl. Just remember you can't change anyone but you sure can discuss how you feel. Good luck ;-)
2006-09-27 03:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls become blinded by love... as do guys sometimes.. it is just something new to her.. the new will wear off and she will come back to you.. question is do you want to be her rebound friend...the freind that she only has when a boyfriend is not an option... just think about it.. she is your friend she is just busy with love right now...
2006-09-27 10:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until you walk in her shoes you don't know what it's like.she can at least try to call you or you call her.The boyfriend may not like you and she may not want any trouble.when you hang out with a single friend you get acused of cheating,then the bf will start cheating if he is not already doing it.I've been down that road.
2006-09-27 10:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why she would choose to spend all of her time with him. You should find a different friend to spend time with while she is spending all of her time with her boyfriend. Stay friends with her because when her relationship fails she will need a friend.
2006-09-27 10:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has dyslexia. To her the rulebook reads, "D***s before chicks"...
2006-09-27 10:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is said to be the rule...but girls do not follow it. girls do whatever their boyfriends do....sad really.
2006-09-27 10:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah,what the f*****????
2006-09-27 10:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lions and tigers and bears, oh my! WTF!?
2006-09-27 10:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf?
2006-09-27 10:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋