How did you know when you had found THE ONE??
2006-09-27 03:22:26 · 24 answers · asked by BeautyMark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sleek-That is really special. That is truly the best answer so far, though all of these answers were so wonderful. Thank you
2006-09-27 03:46:31 · update #1
I didn't expect him to ask me out, but when he stood in front of me and looked me in my eyes and asked me, I who always played hard to get heard myself telling him yes, because there was something so familiar in his eyes that I connected to deep inside. On our first date, we didn't want to part. The next day was the same. It felt like I was HOME. I had the most comfortable, secure feeling I had every experienced, mind you I come from the most NURTURING family on earth, so I could tell something was really special about him. There were so many signs and peculiar coincidences that I knew God was making sure we both felt we'd found the right one. As we grew, everything just fell more and more into place. If I had the slightest pain, he'd place his hand there without me saying a word. He still is able to do that. And like everyone else says, "you just know." Trust that.
2006-09-27 03:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
When I met hubby, I did not know he would be the one. Several dates later, I just felt comfortable around him and with great sex and compatibility, I really thought he was the one.
We work at our marriage daily because we took an oath to stay together in good times and bad. We have been married coming up to 19 years and in that time we have had some fantastic times and plenty of bad days and sometimes I really feel as thought THE ONE is still out there waiting for me. I love and respect my husband, but I think that we (women in general) never stop looking for the ideal man. THE ONE does not exist except in our minds.
2006-09-27 10:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by file_o_fax 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
The raw dose of reality is that there is no 'one'. Just the one whom you choose. Ask yourself these questions. 1) if he had kids from a previous relationship, god forbid something happened to him, would you provide for the children like they were your own? 2) what if years down the road he choose to leave, would you wish him the best based on your love? Because remeber love is than just loving the person. It is loving their being, what they stand for, and just the idea of them.
2006-09-27 10:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by Floss 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe in "the one". But I guess if you truly believe it you will just know, you will do anything to make it work. That person will always be first in your life.
Luck always has it that "the one" doesn't seem to get it. So you're screwed.
2006-09-27 10:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by Doll 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You never really know. You must be willing to take the next step convinced this is the one. If you enter with doubts, you've already got one strike against you. Love with all your might. Don't think about what could go wrong.
2006-09-27 10:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by Jayme C 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Alright, this is gonna sound cheesy and lame, but I knew he was the one because I felt it....I saw him and it was love at first sight...it was as if something in me was telling me-that's him! It really cannot be described unless you've experienced it, but it was just an undeniable feeling that I had to be with him. 3 months after meeting him for the first time we married.....going on 10 years in April. We were young too, 18.....and sooo many people said we wouldn't make it. But when it's really true love, not lust, you know it, you feel it, it's like that void in your heart fills and you feel that satisfaction you've been waiting on. You think to yourself, not how you can live with him the rest of your life, but how you can live without him a day in your life....When you know you can't....you know it's real.
2006-09-27 10:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
You just know when you find the one. I knew i found the one b/c the guy i had met we never argued, we got along great, we both liked doing the same things, whenever he'd go to work i'd think of him constantly. He was always on my mind. When you find the one you just know that he's the one for you.
2006-09-27 10:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
When I couldnt stand being one minute without him. He was all I could think about, and I couldnt imagine ever being with anyone else. And to you there is no other man that could ever be better than he is, he is everything to you. You just know, that's the only way I know how to say it. There is no definite answer, you just know he is the one and the only one you want to be with for the rest of your life.
2006-09-27 10:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Kuiper 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I used my head instead of just my heart. He had many of the same values and was a good, stable person.
He's still a good man, but in many ways, I wish I had never married.
2006-09-27 10:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
He turned out to be my best friend. Then he was a hell horse in the sack...so now we're married with two great kids and all the love two people could wish for.
2006-09-27 10:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by murph_ltt 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋