Some of my really good friends and I went to change in the school's (all-girls) toilet after a workout as usual. A few of them started changing outside the cubicles and asked me to join them because they were "curious to see how I looked". I was quite embarrassed and declined but after I came out they seemed a bit angry with me. What should I do the next time they ask me the same thing, or will they avoid me just because of this?
2006-09-27 03:04:34 · 8 answers · asked by miss flames 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They are sick. I mean your body is your personal property and you have every right to not to show it to anyone. For all you know they can turn out to be lesbians.
Plus even if they are heterosexual,they can make fun of your body or spread rumours about you everywhere. I mean a good friendship doesn't involve all this.
So,i suggest that the next time they ask you to change your clothes in front of them and you don't want that,simply say no.
and if they ignore you or become angry they are not worthy of your friendship.
2006-09-27 03:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by Meghana Singh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them to look at the circumstances if they were in your position "man always thinks of himself" same with yor friends or show them some encyclopedia pics if they are still sulking or acting stupid buzz off from them i'm telling a lot of people have had thi kind of experience and its not healthy and safe if you still hang with the same friends
2006-09-27 10:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you do something that makes you feel uncomfortable. Don't do it if it doesn't feel right to you. It really shouldn't be nay of their concern how you look unless they like you in another kind of way. Be careful.
2006-09-27 10:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your friends have a natural curiosity about the female anatomy but it is a topic that not everyone is comfortable with and they have to undertand that and respect your decision.
2006-09-27 10:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... think it's out of curiousity of them... just tell them your thinking and feeling about how u felt... if they are your real friends, I'm sure they will understand..
2006-09-28 00:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do what u don't feel like doing & don't bother about what others think about you!!
2006-09-28 00:38:59 · answer #6 · answered by eZY jOHn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to listen to them if you re uncomfortable. they are just been childish.
2006-09-27 10:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by wise_one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friends that you feel uncomfortable. maybe they'll understand
2006-09-27 10:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by mommie2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋