anal sex questions?

Question

does the top have more pleasure than the bottom?

is anal sex messy ?

Answer 1

If the partners can go about it the right way, each can have pleasure. If someone prefers to bottom it is important to keep in mind that this is a person who craves to be sodomized. The bottom can choose to masterbate or be masterbated during or after the act of being sodomized. In addition, while being sodomized there is also kissing, stroking and body contact going on - which can be highly satisfactory for both partners.

Anal sex does not have to be messy. Anyone who wants to be penetrated should get an enema before hand. You can buy kits in stores, use femine douche products or just use a bottle of water.

Answer 2

Ok, first off, as a Top I enjoy the sex very much, my bottom boy loves being on the bottom, he just does. It's a personal preference. As for, is it messy, well if the bottom cleans himself properly, it shouldn't be an issue. Most bottoms I know, clean before going out, just in case they hook up with a Top for the night. Now if your asking is there any pleasure to being a bottom, biologically there is. The prostate (Male G-spot) is located just inside the anal cavity, when penetration occurs the prostate is stimulated thus resulting in sexual pleasure. The constant stimulation from repetitive thrusts can and does cause intense ejaculation. I speak from watching my BF go nuts when I am with him.

Answer 3

The whole concept of anal sex is that both top and bottom derive pleasure. It begins with foreplay with bottom getting prepared by doing cleaning out using enema or water. This can be done together with top assisting. Once clean out is accomplished preparing to insert. Here is where lube is necessary and important for the bottom. Condoms for safe sex. A top how is gentle and knows how to ride his bottom. Trying different positions only adds to equal pleasure for top and bottom.

Answer 4

Anal sex doesn't have to be messy. The bottom should enema before sex.
In my personal opinion the bottom gets a lot more pleasure than the top.

PS: It's possible to orgasm as a bottom without ejaculating. In fact stimulating the penis gets in the way of orgasm.

Answer 5

I always enjoy sex with men more as a bottom than a top....I'm always the top when I'm with my wife, so when I'm with a man, I am always the bottom first....I will top a man if he wants me to, but I prefer to be the bottom.

As far as "messy", lol.....it's no different than when my wife and I have anal sex, just make sure you're clean first, regardless of who you're having sex with.

Answer 6

it can be messy at times and no the top does not get more pleasure than the bottom, its different pleasure. but it is an awsome feeling if done right.

Answer 7

If both of them know what they're doing, pleasure is about equal. And, yes, it can be which is the reason that both partners should clean themselves out inside before and after sex.

Answer 8

It can get messy if you don't take nessesary precautions. Flush before sex, ok?
I can tell you that both have great pleasure if both work for it. When two men are into it both could have great pleasure.

Answer 9

1) Depends completely on the individuals. Personally, top-ing isn't fun for me at ALL. Different people are into different things; ideally you're both having a good time.

2) It can be. Mostly, there'll be lube everywhere. Beyond that, usually not.

Answer 10

YES and Yes, sometimes if you are with a bottom that hasn't thought things through properly! That really takes all the fun out of the night!