Ever since I moved half way cross country, my friends don't call or email anymore. Why is it that I don't seem to exist anymore?
I try, but very rarely get a call or email, and I know they have phones and email! What's wrong because I moved?
2006-09-27 02:46:06 · 5 answers · asked by chefgrille 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'll be your friend!!!
2006-09-27 02:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm from Argentina and I moved 7 months ago to GA... my friends don't call me at all, it's too expensive for them, they email me once in a while....I now how it feels... but what i've been thinking lately is: do I call them or email them so we can continue our friendship? I know you think they should be calling you and asking how is your life going now, i think the same... but i just decided I'm gonna do the first step.. I'm gonna write them and tell them how I feel about all this... If they're real friends they are going to answer the email and everything it's gonna be fine! You should do the same! Good Luck... and this is something I have always on my mind.. I read it once, and changed my view on friendship and how to accept lost...
People In Your Life
People always come into your life for
a reason, a season and a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is,
you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed
outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist
you through a difficulty, or to provide you with
guidance and support, to aid you physically,
emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem
like a godsend to you, and they are.
They are there for a reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at
an inconvenient time, this person will say or do
something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away.
Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take
a stand. What we must realize is that our need has
been met, our desire fulfilleed; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and it
is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON ,
it is because your turn has come to share, grow,
or learn. They may bring you an experience
of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you
have never done. They usually give
you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
And like Spring turns to Summer,
and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.
LIFETIME relationships teach you a lifetime of
lessons; those things you must build upon in
order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the
person/people (anyway), and put what you have
learned to use in all other relationships and areas
in your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
2006-09-27 10:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by * adri * 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Going through the same thing now.........get on with your life and find some new people to hang out with. Friends come and go, it is a very common occurrence. Good luck !
2006-09-27 12:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by turbietech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends come and go! Life goes on! You do have a memory book, pictures your memory took. You will make new friends, I promise! All of us on Yahoo Answers are your new friends. Thats a beginning!
Its hard, so hang in there!
2006-09-27 09:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by KIM A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, this often happens. Their lives go on without you. I think you need to find some new friends where you are.
2006-09-27 09:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋