2006-09-27 02:16:24 · 19 answers · asked by Feeling Shame 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If they are the unhappy ones they do other wise they could care less as far as most men are concerned you are either a drama queen or just bitchin so no if it doesn't effect their food source or level of comfort they could care less if it does effect those things then they are pissed.
2006-09-27 02:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a very good question but I would have to say at least for myself and my ex Husband no he didn't realize how bad things were and when he said no matter what his Mom and Dad never Divorced no matter how bad things got I knew it was time for me to go he just wasnt the same person anymore and I was beginning to feel like tapped so I knew it was time to go military benefits or not I LEFT and still he wanted to know what he did to make me leave and we had alot of open communication well at least i talked to him alot and I told him long before I left that the day would come but he chose to hear what he wanted to hear so I moved on and right today when he phones or talks to me about our child he still says I love you and I laugh it off and say honey thats a line I'm not buying.Still he says we could have made it things werent that bad between us you should have just told me and I asked where in the world he had been living in the last years of our marriage because he couldnt have been living on the same planet with me the last 2 yrs of our marriage were pure hell he provided and I worked and went to school to help make ends meet but that is all he did.
2006-09-27 09:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we do. In fact we sense when things are wrong. Unfortunately to many woman do not want to believe their marriage is not all roses and they dont communicate their problems. Until its too late by then the guy or girl has moved on and there is no coming back.
2006-09-27 10:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for years I stayed in a loveless marriage. I lived upstairs and my x lived downstairs. as long as there was food andsex occasionally (no kissing though) he was oblivious to everything else. h*ll, he is still waiting for me to come home after almost 4 years. Men are dense. And when you put down the rule that there is no more kissing, wouldnt that raise a red flag? Naaaaa, they mostly care about themselves and until they are impacted negatively-are oblivious.
2006-09-27 09:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by cici 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They do if there is good communication between the partners from the beginning of the relationship. Just like all the other aspects of marriage, communication takes constant work and effort.
2006-09-27 09:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, they do, but sometimes they dont know why.
so they wonder about it.
or even ask about it. but the women usually never say a word. they expect the guy to be a fricken mind reader.
can YOU read minds?
no? they why expect the guy to read your mind?
its like voting.
use your vote or you truly have no voice in politics.
same thing at home. either say whats on your mind or quit bichin about something he has no clue you're ticked about.
2006-09-27 09:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by seanachie60 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but the question is, if they realize it isn't good at home and dont do anything to fix it, why are they so surprised when you leave?
2006-09-27 13:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by miranda_20010402 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fishing for "oh yeah, men are terrible" sympathy answers?
Some realize, some don't, just like women. Remeber that it takes two to screw things up.
2006-09-27 09:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They know, they just don't share their feelings as well as us women do. We wear our hearts on our sleeves, and men just have that way of showing the OH WELL attitude. Good luck to ya!
2006-09-27 09:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by Paulda37 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No because 90% of their brain is down south. An their eyes are always at someone else's boobies.
2006-09-27 13:59:03 · answer #10 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋