why is it so hard for women 2 get along?

Question

I see how guys make friends with other guys so easily...how they greet each other and are so inviting...but woman tend to be very judgemental about another woman before she even opens up her mouth...the jealousy I see in woman just because someone else might look better than them is ridiculous. Even in the work place i noticed how alot of women working together is nothing but bitching, complaining, and gossip.

And why is it when a woman gets a little bit of authority she thinks she has complete control when there's a difference between managing/supervising and just dictating everyone's every move...and just to be very clear im talking about some women not all.

I have this one girlfriend who is so self conscience that she doesn't like going to the club or any outing like such just because she does't want to be upstaged by another girl who might look better than her.

Answer 1

I will be watching this question, I have noticed the exact same thing. Women around other women are just plain catty. As far as your women getting authority jeez on the button that just happened at my workplace and she is more intent on everyone knowing that she is the boss and her will is law rather than being a good supervisor and accomplishing goals within the company. She has destroyed moral in the section she supervises and put our numbers as a group in the toilet. Great question.

Answer 2

I don' think it hard for women to get along and I don't think women are any more judgemental then men. I was a tomboy growing up so I was always around a lot of guys. Hell, men gossip more then women, men complain all the time about everything, and bitching...whoa, you'll be surprised. I think women don't include as many people into our immediate circle of friends because we look deep into a person. Women are more likely to look at the quality of anothers personality more then the outside appearance and vibe. I mean you can even see that in who we choose to date and not only friendships. Even in dating, men tend to go with the outside appearance before the inner self. I don't consider that being judgemental, I consider it selective.

I mean would you rather have a thousand people who you hang out with, party with, play games, but never talk, rarely are serious, etc. or would you rather have a few good friends that will always be by your side,who listen, and talk, and actually care?

Answer 3

Although women are highly intellectual, many women are more emotional than males are. The estrogen contributes to the emotional capacities a woman has. I think that this is partially to blame for why it seems so hard for females to create good friendships. Jealousy, evil, b!tchy, moody, drama-queen, spiteful.... The words can go on and on, and I think it stems from the emotions that women can have which men simply do not have. Despite this, many women get along very well and don't have these problems. I am a lesbian and I don't have these problems! So you see, guys aren't better, they are just different. They lack the level of emotion women possess, which is often why men cannot connect with many women the way a woman needs, and really understand and reciprocate her feelings.

Answer 4

Women are very easily threatened. I have been told I'm intimidating by guys. I can't imagine what a woman would think. I've found it easier to get along with woman who classify themselves as bitches. I think it's because they see the pettiness most women get caught up in and don't like to play that game. I think women are far more competitive than men outside of sports. I think that's where all the pettiness and jealousy come from.

Answer 5

It is jealousy - There isn't a woman that doesn't feel intimidated by another woman who looks better than she does. Woman are taught this at an early age by way of TV, Magazines, Advertisements, etc.

Answer 6

looks like everyone took my answer but,
I believe we are taught to be this way by an early age. Men are also straight forward...If they dont like you, they will let you know it. they aren't gonna start unnecessary crap, but you know when its time to go.
Women want to remain friends, its like that's what we were socialized to do, so we have a hellofa time breaking from that.

I see it all the time, there are women that clearly cant stand me but still smile to my face and are basically two faced. there are women I cant stand either,but because of circumstances I am stuck with them and well I don't want to deal with the cattyness so I just smile and keep peoples names out of my mouth. Its not worth it.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

I agree! When I was younger, most of my friends were guys for this very reason! Unfortunately, this made the girls dislike me even more! If you find 2 or 3 "real" girl friends in your whole life, you are lucky. I have mine and I stick to them.

Answer 9

We are judgemental, catty, bitchy, and we measure every woman we meet, against ourselves.
Because of this, we either get insecure or conceited, depending on how the women measure up to expectations.

Answer 10

fbitching complaining and gossip, the exact reason why i have 2 female friends, females are jealous by nature and to many females together in one place is just asking for drama....it is what it is