my baby's daddy wants to get married but i don't trust him. when he gets mad he likes to leave for 2 or 3 days. he cheats a lot i don't think i can marry him
2006-09-27 02:05:42 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just by what you have told about him, I say DON'T marry him.
2006-09-27 02:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is two things about your situation that makes me think its not the best idea. First you are only sixteen thats a little young and you have your whole life ahead of you. You do not want to be tied down in a relationship that early in life. Second he seems to have anger problems and someone like that doesnt need to raise your child, your child needs someone that will be there for them every day not whenever he feels like it. Third, you said he cheats on you and if he does once he will do it when you get married. Fourth you sound like you dont really want to cause you said you dont think you can marry him. I think you already made your decision you just need to know that you are making the right decision.
2006-09-27 09:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may have a child already and your just beginning to live your life. You know what is right from wrong do not throw your life away because of your baby daddy, he is not the only man in the world. Move on if that's what you want find your path in life for you and your baby.
2006-09-27 09:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by Island gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't marry him. this guy is not only completely immature, but he's also a player. he won't love you or care for your baby. i'm thinking that the only reason he wants to get married is because he wants the security of being cared for and always having you there without actually putting some effort into it. and think about it, do you really love him enough to go through the whole shebang of getting married? cause even though it seems like it's no big deal anymore, would you really like to tell the guy you actually fall in love with later on that you got married before? that you didn't even really think it through?
2006-09-27 09:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, your 16 and you already have a child. You don't need another one to take care of. Trust me. Don't marry him. If he is cheating on you now, when he gets that ring on his finger he is gonna get worse. You have your whole life a head of you and so does your baby. You can live happily and It will be great. Don't bring the drama of getting married at this young age. Please don't marry a cheater you will only end up hurt and divorced at a young age. Take care.
2006-09-27 09:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have a child at 16! Not a good start and if this young man is close to your age and he is already cheating on you then why in the world would you even think of marrige. I would hit him up for support and try and finish school some where and worry about your child and yourself
2006-09-27 09:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouid think many times or rather hundred of times,having a baby is not a full reasonfor a girl to get marry.Its asomething thta neede a lot of responsibilities,I think hes nt yet done with his child hood,besides your only 16,pity your self if you do that,ask some help to your parents,they are the one whos responsible for their childrens.
2006-09-27 09:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by AmandaNikolah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are 16 and how old is he? if u say he go for 2 or 3 days did u already moved in with him? if so , what did your parents said about it? marrying someone like that will put you in big trouble, becareful!!! u're still young and u still have many things to know about life, i'm 24 and i don't even think about getting married, there's still more 2 come in life so don't rush
2006-09-27 09:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by winnie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't,, at 16 you are still very very young.. enjoy your childhood, your youth,, there will still be a lot of men coming your way when you reach 20 plus and have a stable job..
Your childhood and youth comes only once,, when you get to 25,, you will still lhave at least 65 to 70 years more of a fruitful or unfruitful married life ahead..
2006-09-27 09:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could your life get any more pathetic? You have a child to think of now. Get your sh*t together. You need to provide a stable environment for your child. Forget the boyfriend (but do get child support) and stay in school and get educated. Your baby is counting on you. Grow Up!!!
2006-09-27 09:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This relationship is already over. If you can't trust him now and this man leaves and stay away for two to three days, mam how would be able to be with him during marriage ? It not possible
that the marriage will work for you.
2006-09-27 09:15:38 · answer #11 · answered by Rietta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋