2006-09-27 02:00:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dump him and kick her @ss!!!
Seriously, why is your self esteem so low that you would have to ask total strangers what you should do with your own life?! Sounds that they have made it clear and you need to pick yourself up and move on. Let them have each other because they deserve themselves.
2006-09-27 02:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by ladysteelersince1976 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you need is this.
If they are cheating on you it's because your sister just wants it that way, no strings attached. As for your boyfriend, it's because he is getting it easy. From what I see, you have not caught them in the act yet. Be calm with yourself, no hasty decisions. Set it up to catch them. Do not show a single trace of suspicion until you are sure you've got them where you need them and bang, drop them.
After that they will not like each other anymore because that's what happens when two people are doing it because they are just cheating. They are cheating because they don't love each other. They can never live with each other. You move on after that and find somebody worth calling a boyfriend.
2006-09-27 02:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by Visanza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's take this logically, even though it has to be hard to not be angry.
First of all, unless she is raping him, he's consenting to the situation. It sounds like he is not totally innocent, but neither is she.
So, unless you want to share this man with your sister, then you have some options here.
A - It sounds like your boyfriend is not serious enough about your relationship to be faithful to you. Do you want to continue with a boyfriend that you cannot trust to be faithful to you? Is being faithful to you important to you? If so, you need to have a serious chat with him, either she goes and all other women, or you will find someone better. If you are okay with him sleeping with other women, then you have to be willing to take chances like this (besides, if he's sleeping with your sister, who knows what other sexual history he has had, so think about the risk of STDs and HIV with a person with a history of multiple partners and that condoms can break).
B) Have an even longer talk with your sister. Do both of you want to salvage your relationship? If so, both of you need to establish some boundaries here, especially in regards to dating and boyfriends.
I know that this has to be very hard for you. I hope you can figure out what you need here.
Good luck to you!!
2006-09-27 02:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by Searcher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sister is sleeping with him he is not your boyfriend. Let him go and try to move on. And ignore your no good sister.
2006-09-27 02:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Divine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the boyfriend. Your sister can have him. Find you another loving and caring man. If i were in your situation i wouldn't talk to my sister again. It just shows what can of sister she is. Good luck.
2006-09-27 02:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
beat her ***!! but on the real, I am so sorry sweetie. I know this must be hard. I say you catch them in the act. Set it up so they will be alone and think you will be gone for a while. Then pop back up early. This way will be hard for you but they will not be able to deny it and try to talk you into forgetting about it. He needs to go and she needs to grovel.
2006-09-27 02:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Nina 2 Niña 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your sister have him you deserve better and she needs to learn why a creep like that is not worth destroying a relationship between sisters. he will do her like he has done you.
2006-09-27 02:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask if you can join in to see what she does better than you are doing. Then kick him in the balls and take what your sister has taught you so that you're not in second place.
2006-09-27 02:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by David G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what in the hell i dont feel sorry for you > are you really that stupid or what . i mean get a life asking what u should do and then you say your a virgin sweetie im not trying to be a total b@tch ,but get your priorities straight. well you got a pretty screwed up family get yourself a new bf!
2006-09-27 05:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by lrl_gutierrez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be easier said then done, but you need to leave him alone. Also you need to confront your sister. They are both in the wrong, and you would be stupid to stay in the relationship. Tell him GOOD BYE for good!!
2006-09-27 03:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋