2006-09-27 01:47:41 · 20 answers · asked by Deena F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The sexiest thing in the world to me is a man that is a good father.. when i see my husband playing with the kids.. i just want to jump his bones.. theres NOTHING sexier then a man thats a good father..
2006-09-27 02:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Appealing !
He was married before and now he knows what he wants in a woman, therefore consider yourself lucky because now he will give you the love and care you deserve.
Secondly, it gives you an opportunity to be in a child's life as well and to body with his father depending on how you feel about kids. You are getting two for the price of one here.
It all depends on you. Are you up to it or not? The child is not just any child but your significant other's child.
Go for it.
2006-09-27 08:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Visanza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A responsible loving father is very appealing. Many women will not mind dating a man with children, but many women will mind being in the middle of a tedious divorced couple. No one wants baby mama drama.
2006-09-27 08:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not if man has a child or not that makes him more or less appealing. It is what a man is that counts. That and if you can and want to deal with what comes with the man a ex-wife and child.
2006-09-27 08:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The divorced part is what gets you because if you have 1 divorvce, you are more than likely you will have multiple divorces or maybe not even want to get married again at all! But on the other side atleast we know that you are a family man who is willing to try marriage because not many men are willing to keep their kids! (Are they with you?)
2006-09-27 08:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? also depends on the age of the man & the child & how good of a father he is - if he's a good father then it's a good thing - if he's just looking for a woman to watch his kid when he has visitation then that is unappealing - i know divorced men like that.
2006-09-27 10:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by livetall1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I have been with my boyfreind for almost 3 years and he has been seperated from his cheating,drug addict wife for almost 3 years. They have 3 boys together ages 6,4,and 3 but the kids live with my boyfreind,me and our daughter.He also has an older daughter age 7 from ontheer women who he pays child support for. The way I see it if you really love the guy then you will accept his past and his children. Just like you would want him to accept your past and your children from an ex.
2006-09-27 09:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by Dixie H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine has two kids. He was very appealing. He is an excellent dad. Ofcourse the kids always come first. But that's OK. My son comes first too. That's the way it should be.
2006-09-27 09:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by danadeville 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter if you love someone. Things don't always go for us the way we plan, but God has plans for all of us. When you love someone, you love their baggage. So it doesn't matter if he has a child, you can't stop love. You might turn him away, and the next one you meet may not be a real winner. Good luck!
2006-09-27 08:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by Paulda37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want that baggage? You will be dealing with the child's mother the rest of your life if you marry him. Is she nice, or is she difficult to deal with? Only you can know if he's worth it.
2006-09-27 08:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋