he thinks because he works earns a good wage thats enough...ive tried everything and nothing works...any ideas???
2006-09-27 01:44:06 · 26 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are describing MY husband..... :(
2006-09-27 01:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do my own share of the shopping, cooking, cleaning, ironing etc and leave his on the side, preferably all in the same pile. Then be out, anywhere rather than at home, so I wouldn't have to listen to his moaning about it.
Anyway, 'earns a good wage, that's enough'. Enough for what? Haven't you worked hard enough as well?
2006-09-27 08:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say it's a "good wage," so hire a maid service to come in and clean once a week, and a landscaping service to do your yardwork every other week. You'll feel energized by having the extra time, and less resentful. Also, plan more activities with female friends for your own enjoyment; don't wait around on him to go out and have fun.
2006-09-27 08:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your husband works this doesn't means he's lazy. It could be that his job maybe strenous. In other words his hours may have increased to the point he only wants to relax.
Really we don't know at this point of what type of job or even maybe his position.
Besides I feel that you're seeking quality time from him and he can't provide this time for you, because he extremely tired.
Any one else out there have suggestion.
2006-09-27 08:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Rietta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all married to the same man! ha ha ha ha Sweetie don't sweat the small stuff,give him a couple chores to do on the weekend and learn to enjoy your time together..the dishes will wait and the laundry isn't going anywhere...so put your feet up with him,grab a beer or a glass of wine and relax.....
2006-09-27 09:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by vanislandwitch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats sad. tell him to get off his lazy a** and be more attentive to his home life and if he doesn't make a run for it. Theres someone better out there.
2006-09-27 08:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by accvining 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on strike....no dinner, no housework, no doing dishes, no mowing grass, no taking out the garbage, no cleaning the bathroom, no washing HIS clothes....Also...have a headache...you're a working woman and earning a good wage too....(be to tired)!!!
You go to work...do you job at work...and forget about HOME....
Beat your husband at his own game of LAZY!!!.
2006-09-27 08:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all else fails, call Jo Frost (Super Nanny). She'll create a naughty room and banish him there until he starts to behave himself! I'm sure! Good Luck.
2006-09-27 09:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no sex.. always works.. i cant believe being a guy im telling u this.. i mean a sex ban on him til he co operates with u.. lol if not then draw out tasks for both of u and says its ur resp to do the following in the house and his to do the following.. if he doesnt .. well put the above mentioned ban on him
2006-09-27 08:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by vikram m 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hire a good-looking stud handyman
2006-09-27 09:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG ...WE ARE ALL MARRIED TO THE SAME MAN!!!!!!!!!!!
mine likes to leave his nasty underwear in the bathroom floor after a shower....I think that is so rude. True I dont have to work but damn!
LOL @ have sex with the pool boy hahahahaaa
2006-09-27 08:49:47 · answer #11 · answered by icecreamheadache420 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋