The man I love had to move 500 miles away for his job and I could not go because of my daughter. We call everyday and talk to each other. But anyway he really wanted me there but I couldn't leave her. Now he will call and if I tell him I love him he sometimes says it and I can't hardly hear him. It hurts so bad when he does that. Or like this morning he called and when we got off the phone he said it fast and I couldn't really make it out. But if he is leaving a message he says it really loving. I don't know maybe I am making more out of it than I should. Please let me know what you think.
2006-09-27 01:20:44 · 5 answers · asked by BC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should be worried if he cant say the whole thing properly, something might be up? talk to him about it.
2006-09-27 01:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he still loves you, that may be why he's acting this way. The problem is some people are a little selfish (actually, a lot of people). And he might be acting this way because he is hurt, possibly a little bit jealous.
But he's selfish because he doesn't realize the hard choice you had to make - you love him, but you love your daughter as well. He may not be angry (maybe), but it could be eating him up inside not to have you there with him.
But you have to think about something else too: If you were to go and live with him, there's no guarantee that you will be together always - especially if he's not understanding the dilemna that you're facing right now. He should do his best to at least keep the friendship... and vice versa. Don't try to keep him hanging on if he can't handle a long-distance relationship. A lot of people can't handle it. They need the physical interaction - the touch, the kiss, love-making, and sharing of events. So be sure you can handle it as well.
He loves you, wants you, but he's sad and disappointed that he can't have all of you. If you want to make it work (or at least try), you have to be really really romantic and understanding with each other - cards, flowers, love-letters, phone calls, chatting, sharing stories, fantasies, dreams, watching TV "together", etc.
It may work, but honestly, nothing beats the real thing - unless you're really busy...
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2006-09-27 08:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by mo2dajizzo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouldnt be worried on how he says "i love you" to you.. but be worried on the distance between both of you. instead of worrying, try to find ways on how you could see each other often. or give him a surprise that would make him feel that he is the luckiest man alive. that he is really loved! be positive! but on the other hand talk it over if you really think something is wrong.
2006-09-27 09:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by cai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face facts, he is boning someone else and keeping you warm for when he comes back. Do not push it, you sound like a whining individual and a bit clingy, and with a kid and I guess carrying a few extra pounds just be grateful he even phones you. Tone up and start thinking about doing something more adventurous sexually to entice him back, anal works and of course prolonged oral.. immediately after anal would excite!
2006-09-27 08:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well to me i feel u are adding more meaning to his attitude towards u. i feel if he loves and care for u his behaviour towards u will show it, so my dear just try and think positive so as to get a positive answer from the relationship
2006-09-27 08:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by lizzy f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋