1. He strongly exploits when I ask money matters.
2. He keeps his money transations and deposit details very private.
3. He hesitate to reveal it when I ask and even try to threaten / beat me when I insists.
4. He never bring me anything without asking.
2006-09-27 01:17:37 · 25 answers · asked by Leena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
THESE FOUR QUALITIES NEVER SHOW THAT HE IS HAVING AFFAIRS WITH ANY OTHER LADY. BUT IT IS NATURE OF SOME PERSON.
2006-09-30 17:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's keeping all this from you for whatever reason it's not a good one. Your best bet is to get away from him. He's doing you wrong and you know it. Most important if he put his hands on you that alone make him a low life. I know you don't want to hear this but any man who puts his hand on a woman no matter what the reason is, he's a damn coward. You can do better besides your happines and well being comes first. I say get out while you can before it's too late.Becareful be strong have faith and get a move on girl life's waiting for you, a better on that is! Take care God Bless.
2006-09-27 01:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If these had been his usual behaviour, nothing to worry. but if he has been showing this behaviour from somewhere in the middle, then, Yes you have to worry about his having an affair. You don't need to tolerate him if he does'nt let you live a happy married life. Men will exploit women until women don't oppose.
2006-09-27 22:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by sona_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are on a wrong track.
first of all don`t think that your husband has external affair.
try to find out where exactly you are wrong don`t blame him without analysing your self.
if does not have any affair due to your rude behaviour he may get engage with other one.
stop watching the serials on the TV and change your women`s mentality.
think broadly and try to find out what exactly your husband expects from you.
give him each and every thing what he wants from you. by doing this you will gain his confidence.
share each and every thing with him then and only then he will share with you.
think positive otherwise you will lose your marriage.
lastly please become a GOOD WIFE for your husband.
2006-09-27 05:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by Neo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he could be doing more than keeping money from you. (not necessarily a woman) but you are right, things don't add up and he is hiding something. If he is hitting you - leave the monster. Go to a woman's shelter - he is looking out for himself and you need to protect yourself. He is controlling you. I don't know if that is a cultural thing or not but please be careful. Perhaps you can save change from your purchases and build up a secret account of your own so that you can leave?
2006-09-27 01:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,
You need to get out of this relationship, ot os toxic. There is nothing you should not be able to discuss with your spouse, communication is the key to a good relationship. If he is physically abusive to you, another woman is the least of your worries. Leave him, you deserve a better life.
2006-09-27 01:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep Confidence and always remember a line that one can not hide truth / facts for a long time. I can understand your problum but there is no other way that to wait and be alart. I am a male and facing same problum.
2006-09-27 19:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Question 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I FEEL PERHAPS U R JUMPING TO THE CONCLUSIONS. IF YOU ARE A SPENDTHRIFT AND SHOPPING MANIAC THEN HE IS DOING RIGHT THING ! BUT IF YOU THINK HE IS JUST GOING THROUGH MOTIONS AND SHOWS NO INTEREST / INTIMACY OR INTENSITY IN MAKING LOVE WITH U THEN U MAY HAVE A POINT! READ HIS BODY LANGUAGE AND MOBILE CALLS / MESSAGES CLANDESTINELY THAT MAY GIVE U SOME CLUE !!! ALTHOUGH HOPING THAT YOUR WORST FEARS NOT COMING TRUE U SHOULD ANYWAY LEARN TO BE SELF SUFFICIENT FINANCIALLY SOONEST POSSIBLE OTHERWISE U WILL REMAIN HENPECKED WIFE FOREVER !!!!
2006-09-27 03:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by Rajendra K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its still not necessary that he is in another relationship. maybe he is just bored. u have to win him back. try ignoring him, dressing up well, toning your body up a bit, learn to cook if you cant, make yourself indispensable for him. but if he still doesnt give a damn, leave him for good. by the way, if you find the following signs, he may be in another relationship
he has started dressing well
spends more time in getting ready
spends more time in grooming etc.
2006-09-27 01:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by swordfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is not right. Maybe it's not a woman, but something is not right. Threatens to beat you? WHY would you tolerate such at thing?
Has he always been this way, or is it a new behavior?
2006-09-27 01:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by xxxxxxxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask because if you push it you might find your sorry insecure **** out on the street. Try losing a few pounds and experimenting sexually a bit. Boredom is the main cause of straying, that and a whining complaining wife.
2006-09-27 01:20:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋