...and then complain that it is hard for them when the ex becomes unbearable? Any insights? What is it that women expect? The man was already owned by someone else, and he has the kid to prove it, even if he was tricked. If he wasnt there, his name wouldnt be called. I know most women want to have their own kids, with their own men etc, no baggage. But then there are women who marry men who are moving on and have ex-wife and kid. Not that they should be outcasts or anything, but what do women think they can do with a man like that? Love is one thing, but I think a man like that must have some psycholgical problems, must still have some attacxhment to the mother of his child. He'll never fully be there for the second wife, dont women see that? Men you can answer too.
Sure, i did the whole tricking thing to get child support. I just never thought he would move on, let alone get married again. I dont want him back, but his new wife seems to be talking sense to him, he doesnt ...
2006-09-27 01:13:06 · 10 answers · asked by Deena F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
...put up with my drama anymore.
2006-09-27 01:13:34 · update #1
I am an unbearable ex. I want him to get divorced, because this woman is just telling him to stop giving me more than I deserve, in terms of money. She claims they have bills too, but shouldnt he send as much as he can to support his kid? I have a job, but the extra was always welcome.
2006-09-27 01:32:43 · update #2
He should pay only what the courts told him to pay and anything else THEY feel like giving.. Wow what a ***** u are.. lol.. U tricked a man into marrying u.. then give up the man.. but yet think he should still be pineing away for u the rest of your life simply because u were the incubator for his child?????? what the hell ever.. lol.. His love is for his child not u.. he feels NOTHING for you.. ur just something he has to PUT UP WITH because u are the mother of his child THATS IT.. his loyalties are to his child not to you..
My husband is FULLY here for me.. sometimes i think he should stand up more for himself for his kids sake cause his x wife who if i didnt know better id sware your related .. cause u both think on the same wave length of being complete stupid idiots that only think of themselves and not whats best for your child..
I hope him and his wife stay married for ever and i pray they lead a long happy life.. just in spite of you....because ur a horrible excuse for a woman..
2006-09-27 02:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not always the case that a woman insists on marrying a man with kid(s) and then complain. If the man you marry has kid(s), and he usually does, the older he is when you get with him, it does make things more complicated but many in that situation have unbearable exs which makes things harder on everyone involved. How sad for the kids especially. Can't we all just get along! If everyone would get together and stay together that wouldn't even be an issue.
2006-09-27 01:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am my husbands second wife and he has children and grandchild. Some people want to be with someone not for money but for love. They also want to do what is right for there child. You just sound like a woman who only wants the cash and think that just because you have a child with someone you own them. That is bull. When you have child with someone it just means that you have a connection with someone and that they will be a part of your life forever, like it or not. By the sounds of it you are just pissed cause he is now happy and you are full of regret. It is you that needs to move on. Try finding someone or try taking care of yourself and your child. By the way if you keep it up one day it will bite you in the butt. Your child is going to grow up and learn everything. Is this what you what them to see you as? I have a child and I would never keep her from her father if anything happened cause that would be hurting her along with him. It is bad enough you brought a child in the world just for money. The least you could do is do right by the child and not what you can for money.
2006-09-27 01:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think a woman or man for that matter pick someone out that has already been married w/ kids. A person can't help who they fall in love with. What I think is that YOU need to lighten up. Allow him to move on peacefully and enjoy his life without you. He can give you child support, but that is it....his new wife is right...he DOES have bills.
2006-09-27 06:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by mvngs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women insist on marrying a man with a kid or kids for some reasons. First of all, every women want to be called by someone's name as husband to gain respect for herself. This is due to the cause received from the garden of Aden - Gen.3:16. Secondly, some women might be looking for fruit of the womb (children) for years but when meet with a man and conceived she will prefer to even be taken care of the children all alone and bearing the man's name, so she will not care either the man is there for her or not. Boys are not ready to come near such women, so they look for married men to try luck of getting their own children. Finally, some did it out of selfish interest because the man is liquid, have everything to himself and she want to belong and share out of the man's properties.
2006-09-27 02:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Enietimo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some just like the idea of having a ready made family.
2006-09-27 01:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you one of the unbearable ex's???
2006-09-27 01:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
women love punishment
2006-09-27 01:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u are confused.its no drama.its comedy.
2006-09-27 01:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Santa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-09-27 01:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋