well , i met this really hot and sweet guy who i just fell for the first time that i saw him, we went out like once and we talked for like 4 hours !! , the second date we went on was at his appartment and we kinda ended up in bed togther !! , i know it was too soon, but he was soooooooo sweet ! , anyways , now it's like a week later and he did'nt even call !!!!!!
was i a one night stand !! ??
if i was then what should i do , should i call him ? should i wait for him to call me , or should i just forget about him !!!?
2006-09-27 00:46:33 · 18 answers · asked by crazzy_em 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Been there, done that. Sounds very much like one I had sometime back. Charming, sincere, coy, freakin' hot ..... 2 dates .... back to his crib ... wham-bam-thank-ya-man. Never heard from him since. Although I did try to call, but a woman answered the phone.
Try and call like previously mentioned ... just as a friend. If he doesn't return your calls or sounds very put-off on the phone, then your answer is yes ... sorry babe, chalk it up as a "One-nighter".
2006-09-27 01:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by spartexcites 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's see...1) he may be wondering why it took you the second date to get down to it (where does all this screwed up stuff come from about timing...we are all here to get it on...why play games?)
2) what happened to YOUR phone that you didn't call him? What protocol are you standing on here? Stop with the Yahoo Answers and pick up the phone. In every relationship, there is a more agressive and a more passive. If you are/were the more agressive, he may have been waiting for you to call. He may think that HE was the 1 night stand. So call him and let him know he wasn't. Good grief..what is the problem here. Are you that shy? Good luck, and don't let him get away.
2006-09-27 09:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE"S probally thinking "I met this really hot and sweet guy who I fell for the first time I saw him. We went out once and we talked for 4 hours!!. The second date we went on was at my appartment and we kinda ended up in bed together!!. I know it was too soon, but he was sooooooooo sweet ! . anyways , now it's like a week later and he didnt even call !!!!!! was it a one night stant !! ?? CALL HIM you f****w*t and find out. It takes two to tango.
And dont worry about samssculp, hes just one of those redneck wankas who wears a hood to hide his face cos he's one big coward and a cloke so no-one can see him mastabating himself
2006-09-27 09:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely it was a one night stand and you should just get over it. You said that he didn't call did you try to call him? Call me an old fashion f a g but there is absolutely nothing wrong with sex on a second date - - - this whole notion of 'saving it for the alter' is hog-khafloey. Do not think yourself a 'soiled dove' and spend the rest of your life weeping about having done the dirty foul deed with someone who wasn;'t a soul mate. If that is your attitude then resign yourself to masturbation and never date again!
But yes, you should have called him within two days - - -
Peace.....
2006-09-27 07:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is waiting for you to call him maybe he is thinking the same thing. Give him a call to see if he wants to go out for coffee or something and if he makes excuses about being to busy simple say well call me when your free. You must be prepared to let go and move on thou as he might not. Good luck darl.
2006-09-27 11:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to call and if he doesnt then move on! Yes you were a one night stand!
2006-09-27 09:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's what we called PRIDE, and it can destroy friendship or relationship,so start calling and if he doesn't interest or like you,then junk him and millions of nice wonderful guys are waiting for you! Good Luck and Good luck again.
2006-09-27 10:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you try calling/text/email? Give it one shot, and if no response, chuck it up to a fun night and try not to take it too personally, don't get too hooked so damn soon.
2006-09-27 09:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rule out one nite stand but I would give him a "FRIENDLY" call just to say HI. Maybe even suggest another date together if, "IF" friendly conversation opens that door a bit. Don't want to scare him off do you?
Next time keep pants on a little longer.
2006-09-27 07:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by dragon 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
He used you. That little *****! Don't wait for his call. Try to find someone new. Straight people have this problem too, but tend not to have it when they are more selective....
Sorry, man.
2006-09-27 08:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋