My boyfriend keeps naging that he want's to try anal sex with me. I did it once, didn't like it, but he keeps saying that if I love him I should try it and then we will have sex more often then we do now... which is about twice a week?! But I had an 'accident' first time I did it and I am afraid that it will happen again.... Number 2, if you know what I mean, happend, well it was all over the place, and I was so ashamed of that... I never answered the mans calls, and he did call very often,again. So tell me please what to do? And how to do it without no.2 being everywhere? And why does that happen? Do I need to get my bowels 'cleaned up' before the anal sex? Help
2006-09-27 00:24:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
better change your boyfriend or strat liking anal
2006-09-27 01:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend that if he really loves you, he won't ask again! Or go buy the biggest dildo you can find and tell him if he'll put it up his butt, you'll consider doing anal with him. Bet he won't! It's not worth it in my book; not something I enjoy either. I'm with you,honey. Don't let him pressure you into doing something yo udon't want to to. That's very selfish on his part! Just tell him if he mentions it again, he won't get "any" at all ! You are the goddess of the "pus*sy". Godloveya.
2006-09-27 01:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR MAN IS GETTING GREEDY I MAY SAY HERE. MEN DO FIND ANAL SEX WITH A WOMAN MORE SATISFYING, PRIMARILY BECAUSE OF THE COMMANDING POSITION THAT IT PUTS A MAN IN (DOGGY STYLE). MEN TEND TO BE MORE IN CONTROL OF THE WHOLE ACT, THOUGH MANY A WOMAN FIND ANAL SEX DISGUSTING.
WELL IF YOU DO GO AHEAD, AFTER YOU FINISH YOUR BUSINESS, TAKE TIME TO SIT ON THE POT FOR A WHILE 10 - 12 MINUTES. LET ALL THAT WANTS TO COME OUT, COME OUT. WASH WELL & KEEP SOME TISSUES OR A PAD COVERING YOUR BUM UNDER YOUR PANTIES, JUST IN CASE YOU END UP LEAKING.
HOPE THIS HELPS...................
2006-09-27 00:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by Sarang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely have to be clean, otherwise him pulling in and out could bring it out again...try to go before you do it.
If he is telling you crap like "if you love me" then that's just really ridiculous...don't do it because of that.
However, if you are willing to try it, i suggest that you do go get rid of the brown stuff before you have to go.
It was really weird and uncomfortable for me the first few times...but then i let myself go and enjoy it...and let me tell you...it is awesome and i am absolutely hooked.
SO if anything,i think you should try it and it could eventually be something you really really enjoy!
2006-09-27 00:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Patience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, he won't try to pressure you into something you are clearly not comfortable with
2006-09-27 00:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by rockdeboat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL DON'T LET THE JACK A** PRESSURE YOU. IF YOU'RE GOING TO DO IT,DO IT CAUSE YOU WANT TO. I JUST TRY TO MAKE SURE I GO BEFORE.
2006-09-27 00:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by i'm smart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it don't do it.. tell him "you First" lemme stick something where it doesn't belong and see how you like it...If you like it, use an ennema first to cleanse.
2006-09-27 00:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean an enema? Not a bad idea.
2006-09-27 00:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋