Im drowning with debts and can cope with life struggle but i got 2 kids aqnd wife but im ready to loose them?
2006-09-27 00:17:56 · 13 answers · asked by JAYVEE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Take Life one day at a time!
2006-09-27 00:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, how did you get so far in debt? You can get into debtors anonymous it can help with creditors. If you are in this situation due to gambling or something like this, you can ban yourself from several Casinos, go to Gamblers Anonymous, Alcoholics Anonymous, there are many 12 step programs available, I am just guessing as to why you are in debt. You see, I too ( if this is what you mean, wanting to die) could never afford to have an expensive addiction, but I knew I was the only person who could change my life, often I wanted to attempt suicide in fact even before addiction entered my life I was in a coma for ten hours, I had children at that time who where toddlers, but i just felt I could not go on. Well I am here to tell you, You can change your life around, get professional help and have your wife and family involved if necessary. What you may be going through are FEELING S THAT ARE UNCOMFORTABLE AND PAINFUL! You appear to sound anxious and feel you are at the end of your rope! Go get help, find some groups and professional that can help you think with less confusion. Some reason you are in debt, is it you or your wife? Get a budjet together, does she work? Is it necessary for her to leave you? Are you Honest? Can she trust you? Are you being honest with your own self? This can be fixed, time , it takes work, time, determination to change, a willingness to change and to admit you have or are the problem why your life is falling apart. Stick with it, hold on do not run away from what are your emotions feelings, with work that can be turned into positive emotions. C'Mon even if your family leaves as a seperation, you can get yourself strightened out, it will be better then leaving your children living a life knowing DADDY killed himself, and as far I know, once that happens your children can be prone to lean toward the same end. You really have not given enough details, we do not know how these issues came about. You know, so you have a responsibility to take steps to get some answers ! Best of Luck to you and your family, hope this was of some help! Been in simular situation years ago!
2006-09-27 08:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by my4dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only live once and I think giving up on life is not an option. Try to sort out your life little by little, one problem at a time. You might be depress or with some sort of mental imbalance, remember that there is medication now which will easily sort that out, you just have to speak to your doctor.
Everyone goes through bad times, you just have to be strong. Good times will come and one day you'll be very happy again.
Hope this helps and good luck
2006-09-27 07:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by BabeBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, there are people who can help give you advice and instructions how to minimize your debt every month. Your wife and children need you. Show them you are strong and wise, deal with this issue, you have taken the first step by asking this question, now take a second step and find help. Good luck
2006-09-27 07:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think instead of wasting ur time in darting stupid Qs here u shud find a job and start earning 4 ur family. u r an idiot 2 have even thot of losing ur family 4 getting ur debts cleared. ever thot how life wud b if u have no probs but no 1 2 share ur happiness wid. if not 4 ur family think of urself & b sensible enuff 2 work hard and find a job instead of asking stupid Qs as this.
2006-09-27 07:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by aquacool1102 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on the people you love and the people who need you and know that in time, it starts to get easier. It really does. What seems overwhelming today won't even be a thought a couple years from now.
Good luck and be patient! :)
2006-09-27 07:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to end up ur miserable life then u gotto work hard for it,just staying at 1 plc and not even trying out for anything will not end ur probs,go out and find a gud job for ur self,ur wife can also help u with tht ,earning bcomes easy if u mk gud use of ur brains.
2006-09-27 07:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by tanya 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How many idiots I have to lessen.
WHEN YOUR KIDS GET MARRIED YOU CAN GO TO THE HELL, but before get some/any job talk with the banks and whatever to survive . You don't deserve to died - you have to earned.
2006-09-27 07:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help. Please. For yourself first, then for your family. Because if you can't take care of yourself, you can't take care of anyone else.
Seriously. I've been there, very recently. It sucks and I know you feel that there is no hope, but there is. Seek it out. It helped for me.
Good luck and hang in there.
2006-09-27 07:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a course called the alpha course. do the course. all the rest will fall into place
2006-09-27 08:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by mmp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋