Okay i have this girl who i was once with and we broke up because of my temper which is something i had since i was little and we decided to just be friends and she told me it could be a chance she would go back with me if i get the help i need we only been broken up for a month and i have started going to anger management programs and i have been reading books about anger what im trying to say is if u see a man trying his best to change would u give him another chance to prove himself because i still love her very much and she says she loves me but im 22 years old and she is 20 and we started living together to soon i think and we should have waited awhile before we moved in together im just wondering do u think she will ever take me back if im trying to prove myself to her. im in a successful career and i make good money and im planning on going back to college in a couple of months and im not a drug dealer or a bad person i just have a temper problem which im working on now.
2006-09-27 00:11:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if u are doing something to help with your temper, then yes i would take you back, but not move in with u yet, if she loves u like she says she does, then yeah she will take you back, but only when she feels that you have changed, cause their r a lot of man out their that wont change and she is just looking out for herself, anyway, i no u can change, and u no u can, you just hve to show her, known u hve a problem, is the first step, and thats great.take care and treat her well.
2006-09-27 00:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would give that person a second chance. I'd also be a little wary. Breaking up because your temper makes me wonder if there still some emotional scars for her.
Good luck
2006-09-27 07:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by rockdeboat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are working on the problem just to get her back then you are not going to make it b/c you are not really concentrating on the real issue and that is you can't handle pressure and you have no self control. I don't think she will come back too soon b/c she knows that it will take quite a while for you to get it.And if she doesn't be your g/f again can you deal with that ?will you still continue to take the anger management class ? hmmmmmm?she sure was clever to get away from you b/f she got hurt.
2006-09-27 07:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just keep working on it stay in your programs if she is a mature person who does love you then she will respect you for what you are trying to do to better your life you see together with her and most importantly better your self. she will respect you for that. talk to your counselor and see if she can come to a few meeting with you to see your progress this way she can also learn a few things about approaching you when you are angry and she herself how to dwal with it. if she is willing to give it another try then she should be more than willing to take these steps with you. ask her it cant hurt anything ,plus this will give you insight about where she is standing about the 2 of you and how willing she is to not make you do this on your own when you are trying to do this for the both of you.
2006-09-27 11:15:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is required for effective 'change' is continuity of sincere effort to release and let go of inefficient thoughts from the past.... by changing the inner attitudes of your mind, you can change the outer aspects of your life.
Don't worry about what will happen...u just be clear of what u want to do and concentrate on it.... and everything else will fall in your way.
2006-09-27 07:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
witch part of your temper you don't understand,you don't get to use this on her at all.grow up and if she was smart she would have walked right away she won't really love you only fear you big differents.And sad because there maybe someone that who incourage her and love her as a person not someone they can hurt with there words
2006-09-27 07:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by llauramcnulty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u really like her..in fact love her for watevr she is.. coz u r ready to change urself,tryin to control over ur temper.. itz preety gud.. bt let her discover change in U,,dont show,, she will automatically c it .. itz gud tht u r still frndz.. coz u r very near or close to her,,aftr ur changed behaviour.. shw wil surely realize that uhv changed alot.. & then that will make her think further about U.. juz b nice to her. . . go slow ... rest evryhting wil b alrite.. BEST LUCK!
2006-09-27 07:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, well, yes i would give that person a 2nd chance especially if he's trying really hard!!!!!!!!!!!! yes, i'm sure she will come back to you. well, all the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
2006-09-27 07:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by appy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CONGRATULATIONS MAYBE THERE'S A CHANCE FOR THE TWO OF YOU. BUT IF NOT DON'T WORRY YOU'LL FIND SOMEONE. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-27 07:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by i'm smart 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋