I know this can be a touchy subject--it always was with me....until a close friend and I realized we had romantic feelings for one another. I am in a long-term with a guy that I love deeply and wouldn't want to hurt---but the feelings I have for my friend are very strong and I find myself thinking about him more &more each day. How did I let myself get in this screwed up mess? How can I get out of it without causing everyone involved a great deal of pain? If it weren't morally wrong I would seriously consider keeping both---but know that is insane and could never work. Or am I already insane for letting this happen?
2006-09-27 00:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by calebjohnsmom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh guess I will mention---I am in my middle 30's !!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-27 00:12:28 · update #1
I was told that you can't have feelings for two people. I know that's not correct. I wish I had a good answer for you. If you get one, message ME.
2006-09-27 00:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. You carry on with your long time guy.Occasionally you enjoy with your sweet love. Ask your sweet love also to have one long time fixation.For a change sometimes you both can have enjoyment.But don't get involved sentimentally and cause pain to your long time one.Let the fixed one never know this affair.
2006-09-27 07:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by idsalex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. You have to let one of them go, and it remains an ache in you for the rest of your life. You can never tell if you have made the right choice, and all the could've beens drive you slightly crazy
2006-09-27 07:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by Quartz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. But I love three women at the same time: My wife and my two daughters. V.
2006-09-27 07:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by another911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love all people, but you should be romantically involved with just one.
2006-09-27 07:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear, u have to choose one, if not sooner or later u may end up none. think, reflect and make a wise choice. best wishes.
2006-09-27 07:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a hard choice to make, someone has to get hurt, let them down as gently as you can. good luck
2006-09-27 07:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still young- you don't even know what you want.
2006-09-27 07:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no
2006-09-27 07:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by Skell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋