well, i really like this girl because she makes me feel special and we keep each other happy. i was talking to her one day and was very mean to her, she said i really hurt her feelings but it wasn't my fault, i was just having a bad day. so later i wrote her a sweet poem about how much i love her and how much i apologize. i then asked her to be my girlfriend she said yes. i was so happy. the next day she calls me up and breaks up with me i asked her why? she said that she has severe personal problems and that i was mean to her. "what make you think you won't hurt me again?" well on friday she is giving me another chance to tell my side of the story. i love her alot, but she's so complicated. what can i do to get her back with me again. another poem? i also don't want to make it awkward so it ruins our friendship.
2006-09-26 23:14:13 · 10 answers · asked by Carpe Diem (Seize The Day) 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well i think that this girl had a bad relationship in the past and she's afraid of getting hurt again,, all you have to do is not to push your self too much give her time to get to like you & know you better and used to be with you, it sound that she's interested in you but she feel's insecure..
keep in touch with her and share her everything but remember not too much.
Good luck
2006-09-26 23:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Some 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to her and stop writing poems,it won't help. Tell her that you're sorry and then speak your mind, open the door of your heart and tell her how you feel about her and how much you really love and don't wanna hurt her again. Talk openly to her and if you want you can buy a rose for her. But you should be careful as she seems to be a difficult girl and not easily influenced. So, talk to her without any fright or shame or shy, just tell her your feelimgs. You've talked openly here, so do the same, tell her everything that there is on your heart.
Wish you good luck and hope you achieve your love.
2006-09-26 23:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if the 2 of you have really funny moods.You said it wasn't your fault that you was mean cause you was having a bad day. Admit you control your actions not your day.That was your fault & now she has decided to act crazy to like you did & you want to write a poem & think it is ok. Well just cause it worked once don't mean it will work twice.Maybe you guys need to chill from one another for a little while & then to try to start over again. Good Luck!
2006-09-26 23:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You apologized and from the sounds of it very nicely. I know it is hard for you on this but also do not be too hard on yourself. This girl says she has severe personal problems and she may have to work through them before she can move on with her life.
Now, on dealing with this, all I can suggest is be yourself. Nobody knows you on here but I am sure you are a nice person. You're worrying about this girls shows that. When you talk to her if she seems to need time to deal with these issues then let her. Be a friend. At the same time do not let her leave you hanging for too long. Do not set yourself up to be hurt more.
2006-09-26 23:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say I love her ,the truth may come in the form of little tests that you may not expect and when you say that you love someone,expect the unexpected and prepare for a showdown of emotions,women are through history have been unpredictable and this only can make you better as a man ,because the strength of a man lies in the ability to be calm ,collective and predictive in any relationship,as sex with your partner gets better so must these elements grow with every encounter,some guys lose sight of their declaration of love and the meaning of it as soon as the next easy thing comes along and do not stay the course,keeping her interested in you is key to reducing your wave of reoccurring disappointments,saying that you love someone today is easy it is staying in love that is hard since there are so many distractions that keep coming from any and all directions ,like the bee gees say in their song(how deep is your love)can turn into a lifelong commitment,are you really ready? or just playing around?
2006-09-26 23:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by delmy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be mentally prepared for more emotional roller coaster rides if you wanna be with this girl. She appears to be a girl who needs constant reassurance. If you are truly serious about this girl, you'll have to make it known from the very beginning that you are serious about her and you should be extra careful not to offend her again. Writing poems aren't going to be the long term solution.
2006-09-26 23:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No more poems. And, stop saying you were mean, but it's not your fault!! Who's fault is it?? We all have bad days, doesn't mean you can be hateful to someone you claim to care about. Apologize for being a jackass, and leave it up to her.
2006-09-26 23:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aloha from Down Unda!
Okay, 1st, when I use the letter 'i' in reference to myself, it's capitalized!
2nd, your poetry is, at best, questionable.
3rd, you fail to take responsibility of your own actions. Your perception of being 'mean' to her is 'wasn't my fault' ~ do ya think it was mine?
4th, the start of a sentence is capitalized!
Finally, if I found myself in your position, I would encourage her to share her 'severe' personal problems while offering her an open, honest opportunity to 'trial' an ongoing, 'pressure-free' relationship, just to give you both a shot of enjoying each other's company. Best wishes!
;-)
2006-09-27 00:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 02:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by carrilo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try renting a gal pal-ownership is to complicated.
2006-09-26 23:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by super stud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋