2006-09-26 23:11:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
People, gay or straight, are individuals, to take any large group and make generalizations about the members is why there are stereotypes. Some men, gay and straight, are, in fact, hung up on the things you mention. Some men, gay and straight, court the ones they desire, and seek a lasting committed relationship. Gay or straight have nothing to do with it, it's about the wants and need of any particular man. "Most gay are..." tends to lead to claims that "He's gay so he is...", and gay bashers defending stereotypes by arguing that there have been gay men like in the history of the world. Gays, straights, bis, the bdsm players, all of us are Human Beings first, why do so many people, in this forum and others, think one aspect of our character defines, not only who we are, but all we can ever be?
2006-09-27 06:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay men sleep with lots of guys..you have to understand men are men ..they are all pigs..gay man are worst hey hook up in rest stop a parking lot or a prono shop to get sex..why do think most rest stop are closed down..I even know a guy that trolls at the local homo depot looking for action the men's bathroom..some do want relationships and do go on dates..and do court one another.being gay is no fun..most all guys I know arent happy at all..most if they had a choice would like to strait..come think about it they grow up with a mother and father and see a hetro couple and later in life they start to become adults and sex comes into the pitcher and now they want some thing that is different then what they are raised with .and guilt sets in and they see how other men have haterd for gays and how people look down on them..many kill them selfs.its no picnic..I wish I was never attacked to men but I am ..what can i do..pray out the gay..I am also into women..I live in a world I hate..stuck between two choices. I cant be my self..society will hate me and look down on me..I feel like an outsider..its no fun it sucks..as far the penis size I like them large..you have to remember most gays are oral..not anal..so a large penis is better guys have large mouths and hands where a women doenst so six to you is nice where nine is devine to me..I wish I was packing nine..I only got six maybe seven if lose the belly..so I hope you understand a little better..
2006-09-27 09:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just like other single men, some gay men are into courting & relationships while others want one-night stands or short flings.
2006-09-27 06:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two best friends, one nearby and the other (an old roommate from college) on the other side of the country. Both are gay. Both held out for a long time in order to actually find a real partner, not someone to have sex with and dump right away. Both have been duly rewarded with good and faithful boyfriends.
2006-09-27 06:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by angk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the gay world, courtship usually involves one guy with his pants down in the first 5 minutes of meeting. ;) If you are thinking traditional hetero courtship, I don't think gay men can fall into that category. I don't think it's necessary to have to categorize people into pre-existing norms.
What you write is reality, unfortunately. Hopefully those guys will stick together and the guys who want long lasting relationships will find each other. It all works out in the end....(no pun intended)
2006-09-27 18:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! Gay or Bi men like to have penis in general. Something to enjoy and watch the pleasure on the partners face and feel it in there bodies. Much like women do.
2006-09-27 07:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Felicia W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay men are just like regular men. Only with less breasts. And more penises. Or is that peni? Anyway, it just like a relationship between a man and a woman in that they are both just looking for someone to be with whether for a night, a month, or forever.
2006-09-27 06:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by Suraya 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think, size is just a secondary things for us, we need a man with a big heart! Size doesn't matter,it is how passionate and romantic your lover is that really counts!Action speaks louder than words but same as straights, gays court each other!
2006-09-27 06:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Bruno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, No and yes in that order. However, in many cases courtships are a lot shorter simply because gay men are not hung up about sex.
2006-09-27 06:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by God 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay men court, but in gay time and it's called cruising....
2006-09-27 09:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋