im a married woman,but i have problems with sex. to me sex its really traumatic.i want to enjoy my sex life.?

Question

how can i solve my probs

Answer 1

First thing is a therapist could help. Also, have a good talk with your husband at a time that both are not into sex. Tell him how you feel, tell him why you see it a traumatic experience. Tell him your likes and dislikes. Find some alone time and explore your own body. Maybe your husband would be glad to see you afterwards doing it in front of him and it could help him learn what you enjoy ;-)

Answer 2

Come to me coz you need a change and change is always prosperous.

Answer 3

you should see a therapist