and no it's not happened to me, I'm just interested after reading an article about a couple who dealt with it and had a happy ending.
2006-09-26 22:35:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
necropol..a cross dresser is not a transvestite, they're mostly straight
2006-09-26 22:40:26 · update #1
Mine does crossdress occasionally, and I knew this before we ever even started dating. Doesn't bother me a bit, except when he sometimes makes a better-looking woman than I do...
2006-09-26 22:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by angk 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If I discovered my b/f was dressing as a girl when I am not at home?
Well, once I had picked myself up off the floor for laughing so hard at this strange and terrible thought, I suppose I would leave him to it...
Whatever makes him happy really. I don't think I would like his cross dressing to become part of our sex life, but whatever he does on his own is fair enough.
I would probably be curious and ask why though, why does cross dressing turn him on..
2006-09-27 05:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by HP 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be very shocked and hurt that my hubby hadn't had the confidence to tell me about it, I would feel like he didn't trust me anymore, I honestly can never imagine my hubby in tights and a mini skirt, he is over 6ft tall and broad, but I suppose if he ever felt he had to cross dress then I would do my best to understand why he felt he had to cross dress and maybe show him how to put make up on properly and wear nicer clothes.
2006-09-27 07:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I could stay with a man that liked to dress as a woman to be honest.
Everyone's taste is different but I like my men to be manly and prancing round in a dress and high heels doesn't really fall into that category. I don't think I could still be attracted to a man after finding that out.
2006-09-27 05:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by Wafflebox 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't married and there are no children, get out of the relationship, NOW. He's probably on the road to leading a gay, or at least bi life. WAY too much trouble for the average woman.
If there are children, then see if you can try to understand and accept his actions. If you want to preserve the marriage, there is counseling, however, if the man is a closet queen, it will NOT, EVER, go away. I'm a gay man; I really do know of what I speak although I've never been into x-dressing. I certainly have done a lot of counseling, though.
2006-09-27 05:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Honey, my old man is a biker and if I ever saw his a** dressed in womens clothes I would be laughing so hard I wouldn't be able to "do" anything. Lord what a mental picture I have stuck in my head now!!LMAO
2006-09-27 06:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by Only hell mama ever raised 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would end it with him. Not only do I find tranvestites scary, but I would be very upset that he didn't tell me about it in the first place.
I don't mind people that have unusual hobbies or interests, but crossdressing is just too much. It goes against my beliefs.
A relationship without honesty is not a relationship at all.
Edit: How could a man who wore woman's clothing possibly be straight? I've met quite a few crossdressers, and none of them were straight. They are very sad, confused individuals.
2006-09-27 05:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by NecropolisXR 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
be with him they can be lots of fun
you can use him for all of the fun in the world
think about it you can have great girlie nights in / out
and you may have something over him
most guys that crossdress are to ashamed to tell you
so if he has it means he is onest and that can only be a good thing
2006-09-27 05:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by eat it then die 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as he was honest and did it privately I wouldn't be bothered.
If he was a x dresser and having sex with men, well that's a different story altogether
2006-09-27 05:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Nicola ♥ 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would be cool with it, I'd like to think. Might actually be fun to play around a little... *dreamy gaze* Hmmm...
*ahem* Anyway, I would have to insist that he buy his own clothes, or at least tell me his size so I could. I don't want any man of mine stretching my clothes out!
2006-09-27 05:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by Suraya 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋