my husband ( soon to be my EX)is so excited about his gf in the net..he keep saying that she is pretty and sweet etc..but if my turn to talk about my guy (co-worker)his voice is low and look like depress...wen he said its ok if i found a bf coz he had somebody now....
2006-09-26 22:33:15 · 7 answers · asked by capricorn girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First off, I do not understand why you seem to living life like you are. It seems your torturing yourself when you should not have to. I dont know the specifics, but it sounds like your ex is still a big part of your life being how you both exchange info on your dating others. And it sounds like your still in love with your soon to be ex, for some reason your seeking approval from him on your new found boyfriend. It should not matter if he gets excited or not about your life outside of his world, besides your getting a divorce. He doesnt sound excited by the prospect of you dating another man because our basic neanderthal nature makes men need to be wanted by multiple women. Now for the record, if you plan on staying friends with your soon to be ex after the divorce and he starts gleaming/gloating about his new found love then simply congratulate him and move on, try to keep your dating life separate. If he insists on knowing what your doing or who your dating then maybe he is still in love with you or is having a tough time letting go. I would definately do alot of soul searching there.
2006-09-26 22:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by brazilman37 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its the Human Nature
It is Present in most humans
Just think
You are making Laughter out of me in between of Freinds or alone
And at a point i mae a bigger laughter out of u
How will ur face look like
like this i think
(:-7
So just chill
just chill chill
just chill
2006-09-27 05:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Rohit_curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is trying to remain emotionless. He probably told you to find someone so that it will take some of the guilt off of his conscience about himself being with another women. There is really nothing to be read in to.
2006-09-27 07:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is selfishly natural. No murderer stands the sight of a sword near his neck. By the way, you are a strange couple, exchanging such a secret and unfaithful issue between yourselves.
2006-09-27 05:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by peaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that he is an A**hole AND wants to make you feel guilty for what you are doing but wants to rub it in what he is doing..... be glad that you are getting rid of him honey. and move on with your life.
2006-09-27 05:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by Red 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its better you go for a new one who can under stand your feeling
2006-09-27 05:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos he still loves you
2006-09-27 05:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋