I'm 27 and had a boyfriend for 9 years before i found my girlfriend. I fell in love with her immediately and we've now been together for 3 years. Last year i met this guy who i fell for, and ended up cheating on my girl. I feel terrible about hurting her but i was so confused at where i should be. I love her so much. Please help me figure this out and share with me if anything similar has happened to you. Or am I the only one???
2006-09-26 22:30:55 · 7 answers · asked by Ally 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're bisexual. Lesbians don't want to have sex with men, it's part of their charter. Lots of people in homosexual relationships are bisexual and bisexuality isn't why you're cheating. It's possible you're resentful to her or you're trapped and you're self-sabotaging the relationship. You really need to be honest with your girl about this and work it out or you're likely going to be doing it again.
2006-09-26 22:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by W0LF 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny, you admit you don't follow the Old Testament (in one of you other questions), yet you still hold on to what it says about homosexuals. Do you just pick and choose which parts of the bible suit you? I think you must have some sort of person reason for your homophobia then. No, homosexuality is not "all about lust". It's about what gender you are romantically attracted to. And even though it's hard for you to comprehend it is fully possible to truly love someone of the same gender.
2016-03-27 13:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a lesbian. You need a man's love and affection. You need to feel secure and happy. And stop to be afraid. Talk to yourself instead.
2006-09-26 22:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by adlight 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get the best of both worlds.
2006-09-26 22:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are a bisexual, you can go see a counsular if you want to
2006-09-27 06:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, babe. You're bisex.
2006-09-26 22:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by sylvdoanx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are probably bi
2006-09-26 22:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋