Does your sexual partner validate you as a man or a woman?

Question

Do male sexual partners validate homosexuals and bisexual men? Do female sexual partners validate lesbians and bisexual women? (Note that I have not mentioned our platonic gay or bi friends or any opposite sex partners we may have had.) Do non-straight male partners validate a man's sense of masculinity? Do non-straight female partners validate a woman's sense of feminity?

Answer 1

of course im a man
so is my man

Answer 2

Not sure what you mean by "validate" in the context of your question but if you mean am I still considered a man during sex with another man then, yes - that's because I am a man and assume a masculine and very active role, even when I'm the passive partner. There is no submission in my passivity.

Answer 3

in the context of your question, I'm not sure what YOU mean by "validate." but I don't need validation. I know who I am, and so does my partner. we are comfortable with who we are and don't need "validation."

Answer 4

i have a really weird relationship
she being a m-f pre op tranny
and me being a cross-dresser my self
our sex life is so out there i can't explain it
i try to treat her as a women as much as i can but i know what ever we are doing i am defiantly the man weird as that my sound we love each other and that is all that matters

Answer 5

I'm secure in who I am and don't need any one to validate me.

Answer 6

My wife helped me with my hair and makeup and told me I was pretty this morning, if that tells you anything.

And I'm always telling her she's beautiful, and we're both quite secure in our femininity.