state of mind. i vshould have beat theam all down . now 3 kids have grown up. she still cheats, am i to continue to ignore this or move on .
2006-09-26 21:44:52 · 18 answers · asked by SIR Trogldite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
more than answer tell me how did you count.. to 13
2006-09-26 21:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by s g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
36 years with someone is a long time to let go however sounds like she cannot be happy with just one man so the kids are grown and she is happy doing what she wants to do no matter the consquences so you have that right to be happy and live your life for you. I would leave and move on and start enjoying what time you have left no one really knows how much time we r here for so why spend it not being happy. Move on and start living for you. It's hard i'm sure after being with someone that long however it is not impossible so start getting some self respect and don't let her walk on you like that. Good Luck. God Bless
2006-09-26 23:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by hubbys2ndbest2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no drug that makes you cheat on your husband!Please, come on!And you are the poor sucker that falls for it all the time!Aren't you scared you might catch something?What about your kids? They are not stupid and they obviously know. She's not being a good role model for your kids and neither are you, letting her walk all over you like that. This is messed up and I think you should grow some balls and divorce her. Really?
2006-09-26 21:49:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 36 years you deserve happiness, if she is going to continue to cheat and you are unhappy with it, move on, at least this way you can stand a chance at happiness.
2006-09-26 21:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look love does not get that good, she could bring something
home and give u that you will not be able to wash off! So let her
go,Ask yourself do I want to waste another yr, unhappy same mess, how about another month, You need stop wasteing life
go live it happy ,free as a normal man god gave u a great mind
right use it. she like's making u look like a monkey! stop it dont
get mad about it, get glad. step up to the plate. well god be with
you ,always remember love yourself first. good luck
2006-09-26 22:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by MISSIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all you have to do is see why you have put up with it until now...
Are your feelings too deep for her that you cant let go...then you will have to deal with her cheating, since it doesn't look as though she is going to stop.
If you've had enough, then maybe you should spend time alone and see where it leads...maybe she will change, and maybe you will.
2006-09-26 21:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Patience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on man. Anyone can make a mistake but what she is doing is on purpose with no regards for your feelings or your marriage together.
2006-09-26 22:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check spelling error 1st. ^^
1) Think about what is there in her that you like?
2) Steady up and return to your normal Way of life.
2006-09-26 21:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by Inquiry Complex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman has a problem tell her its over. Move on and find yourself a loyal true woman. Life is too short.
2006-09-26 21:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her continue to f**k as much as she wants. Tape her doing it and sell the tapes and make some money from it. You are not going to be able to stop her from f**king so be smart and fill your wallet.
2006-09-27 04:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop that woman like a bad habbit. pack her stuff put it outside, change the door locks and the phone number and tell her have a nice day, from the Wicked One.
2006-09-26 21:48:35 · answer #11 · answered by wicked jester 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋