I met a boy 3 weeks ago, We text a lot, I see him twice a week, but we need to be hidden as he has got a girlfriend for 8 years!! He want to see me, say me beautiful words, is very sweet... i don't understand him!! help me! what can I do? I don't want to hurt his girlfriend, to break a couple, but I'm so fine with him, i like him so much!
2006-09-26 21:27:15 · 31 answers · asked by missllola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just to say I never had sex with him... and I just left him
2006-09-27 09:00:28 · update #1
No, no you just cant the words cake and eat it come to mind he is using you girl boot him up the ars* and quick! Wheres your self respect!
2006-09-26 21:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
U met a boy 3 weeks ago, U text a lot, U see him twice a week, but U need to be hidden as he has got a girlfriend for 8 years!! He want to see U, say U beautiful words, is very sweet... U don't understand him!! help U? what can I do? I don't want to hurt his girlfriend, to break a couple, but U r so fine with him, U like him so much!
and then one day another girl would enter his life and he would leave U for HER.
Think Twice!
Thanx
2006-09-26 21:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh, a man to admire :-) a real player who can keep 2 (or possibly more) women on the go at the same time, and probably has them both eating out of his hand (so to speak).
Guys might ask 'What is his secret?' - here we have the answer; beautiful words and putting aside 2 times a week to meet up.
I wonder how many others he is seeing?
2006-09-26 21:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by Vinni and beer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens if you go out with him and he does the same thing to you that he's doing with his girlfriend now? How would you feel? You can't say he wouldn't do that to you because obviously he's capable of cheating. If he's really the great guy you hope he is, he'll do the right thing and break up with his girlfriend. Don't be trashy, you sound sweet and you deserve better.
2006-09-26 21:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yet ANOTHER bimbo that allows a man to cheat knowingly.
Your answer is simple - leave him be - he belongs to someone else and is only using you.
Talk is cheap - of course hes gona say all that crap to get you onside but trust me he aint gona leave this lady. 8 years is a longterm relationship - how would you fee if you were his partner?
Grow a backbone and walk away - you'll never have him, he doesnt mean any of what he says - hes USING you.
People like you boil me to the bone - knowing getting involved with people like him - no wonder its so easy for cheating to occur.
2006-09-26 23:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you dont get involved physical cause that be bang out of order,be there as a friend nothing more.the fact you both wanna keep it a secret not good,if he can do this whats to say if you two ever got together he do it with some one else.sounds like his a player,why dont you find some one single no complications.you dont wanna break them up but if you keep seeing him eventually the gf will find out and god help you both then.
2006-09-26 23:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by shaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you like about him? That's he's a cheat? A liar? A weak person who is probably just using you?
Get real honey. You're loving someone who isn't a good guy. You're making a classic mistake. Give him the boot!
All the best.
2006-09-26 21:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, not only will she get hurt, but so will you. If he can cheat on a girl of 8 years he can most certainly cheat on you too, he knows you a lot less, and also owes you a lot less.
Forget about him, he will only break your heart and hurt you.
2006-09-26 21:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by lakmii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest you need to stay away. If he's already got a girlfriend, you will destroy whatever's left. Its partly hifs fault for cheating but you shouldn't be encouraging him to remain unfaithful.
Tell him to be upfront with his girlfriend and finish with her if he's serious about you two, otherwise go get someone else.
2006-09-26 21:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him dear, once a cheater always a cheater and I'm a bloke. You could if you knew type her a letter and explain the her what he's been up to without disclosing your name.
Take care xxxx
2006-09-26 21:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋