I have this friend at school. she is sometimes real mean to me. she once said that if you follow me while i go somewhere, then i am going to break up with you. I was about to cry. she is the only friend i have, who i can play with only at school. I was so damn surprised. It broke my heart. and also there is this girl who hates me, but likes my friend. she is trying to steal my friend away from me. my friend also seperates me so that i am alone and plays with that girl. she doesnt let me play with them because the other girl doesn't want me to play with her. I feel like I am going to just die. i couldnt take it anymore!! I just want her to be a true friend and be nice with me. she is going to overboard and i don't want her getting away with this foolishness. WHAT CAN I DO??? I am in a serious dilemma!
2006-09-26 20:46:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friend is really terrible! You're the one who should be breaking up with her, because there is no point in you wanting to be with someone that would treat you so poorly.
You must realize that there are lots of very nice people around that you could be friends with instead. Be picky because you deserve to be happy!
2006-09-26 20:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by يا حسين 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how old you are, but it might help to talk with a school counselor. Often, they can give you a lot of insight into the situation at your school, and even offer some good suggestions as to how to behave around this so called "friend". She doesn't sound like much of a "friend" to me. I think that if you could be friendly wth some other girls, just start of by saying "hi" to different ones everyday, then your "friend" will come around. By that time, you should be on your way to having a lot of other friends...and hopefully friends that won't treat you so shabbily!!
2006-09-27 03:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.... first of all...if it was a real friendship, these problems would never have come up. probably, u are mistaken.
dont listen to her and try making other new friends, more boys, the better. and keep on helping her whenever she is in dire needs.
look, friendship is the precious thing of god. preserve it. and i think thats not real friendship. dump that creep and move on. she is not the last person on earth.
look, am there for u. mail me at sweetdia_15@rediffmail.com.
i will help u.
2006-09-27 04:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really mean, then why could u call her a FRIEND? forget about her. even I'm just 11, i know your dilemma. u will met a true friend whom u will call a best friend.
2006-09-27 04:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1ST OF ALL LOVE , DITCH THIS SO CALLED FRIEND OF YOURS . IN FRONT OF EVERY BODY EMBARRASS THE HELL OUT HER IF SHE'S A TRUE FRIEND SHE WILL SAY SHE'S SORRY FOR THE WAY SHE TREATED YOU AND FRIEND SHIP WILL BE STRONGER. 2ND SEEK OUT A NEW GROUP TO HANG WITH IF THE 1ST ONE DOESN'T WORK THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO ACCEPT A PERSON FOR THEM SELVES NOT SOME FAKE.
2006-09-27 04:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by crash man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like a friend, break off the friendship
2006-09-27 03:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by dark^wishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello there.. well there is a lot of people outside there who can be ur friend..if u want to.. i can be ur friends.. don't be sad.. u will find someone who really care u and be ur true friend soon... don't worry ok.. smile owes, god bless u..
2006-09-27 04:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by LadyChels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋