2006-09-26 20:42:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
20 hours a day? That is impressive. I think the wife probably has issues with the amount of time you are gone and that you don't have enought "quality time" together.
2006-09-26 20:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kwan Kong 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The problem is , that you are keeping her around when you dont love her. People do not treat who they love like you are treating your wife, Let her go and make a new life and you maybe can move a couch into where your working and sleep away your four free hours, How did you ever find a minute to ask the question. you could of honored her with your spare minute.
2006-09-27 04:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is she feels neglected.. not that its ur fault cause u do have to work but realize that she's at home, and she misses u and wants to be with u and she watches the clock for your to come home, and all she wants is alittle of your time , your attention, to feel loved, to feel like a woman.. and not just a "wife".. So try and put in alittle extra effort.. make some time in your busy schedule for her.. perhaps go buy some "just because i love you cards" 4 or 5.. and leave them hidden in places u know she'll go to during her day.. like the cabinet, the refridgerator, bathroom , car,.. ect.. see u dont even have to be there but to her she's getting attention from u.. and she'll feel loved, and be on cloud 9.. So give it a shot.. remember the saying is true.. "happy wife, happy life".. so put alittle effort into your marriage she's earned it..
2006-09-27 03:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is mad at you because you work too much. She's not bad that you want to go straight to bed, but she's mad cause you're away 20hrs/day. I hope you can find a better job where you can make the same amount of money, or more, and work less hours. good luck!
2006-09-27 03:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by Krystal V. C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you forget even your wife. One day always had 24 hours of time, why not give even 1 hours to your wife.
2006-09-27 03:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Flavier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to work like that... At that time, I wasn't married but I felt depressed because of when I went to work, people were sleeping, when I finished work, people were sleeping too! I felt kind of lost. If this is your own business, ok... you can't complain too much, try to manage your time better. However, if you work for a company, maybe you should think of changing your job. For your health and your family.
2006-09-27 04:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by smurf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats when they say men are from mars and women are from venus. what is the problem? they are from venus and u r from mars.
women like attention. they thought u dont love them anymore bec u dont make love to them; bec u r tired, etc etc. so sit her down and give her assurances. u love her.. and if only u r not that tired, u will make love to her.
and when women felt so insecure like that, the downside is, they might find some interest outside. some, but not all, ok? so dont generalized.
for as long as they complain, u r still the love of their lives.. once they stop complaining, thats when u start something fishy must be going on.
2006-09-27 04:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your shoes,working so hard for US.I worked so much that US is now just me.If you love your wife then you need to put some of that hard work back into your relationship or you will end up loosing everything you have been working so hard for.Please think about this.
2006-09-27 04:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by want2wild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 24 hours in a day, u work for 20 hourd, meaning the remaining 4 hours, u sleep. it's not healthy for you and your family. what time do u get to see them, talk to them, be with your wife... i understand her. i mean, its not even healthy for you. Try to get another job, before u realise it, u will have lost everything.
2006-09-27 03:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you are not dividing your time correctly. You don't even have any time for yourself. You need to make time for yourself so that you will feel better and not tired and then you need to make some time for your wife. She needs some time with you also. You are working to much and neglecting yourself and your other half. Make time for yourself so you will be happy and some for her so she will be happy and be more appreciative of you.
2006-09-27 04:16:46 · answer #10 · answered by meeeohmyyyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋