I am married but my wife is not interested in sex.
2006-09-26 20:32:15 · 17 answers · asked by malekingfisher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Utilize your extra energy towards sports, if your wife is not interested in sex...find out the reasons, and try to make her ready. It is not easy and advisable for going to other women or prostitutes...it's not morally and otherwise acceptable to everyone. Try to find out the solution with your wife it you still find her attractive and desirable. Otherwise you'll 've to look for alternatives.
2006-09-26 20:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by sameer s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is she not interested? Remember, sex starts the minute you wake up. Do you wake her up with "Good morning, beautiful" or with "Where's my coffee?" Do you make her feel CHERISHED, like she is the most important thing in the world to you?
It sounds like you need to woo her back to you. Maybe she is resentful of something and is keeping that inside. It make take quite some time if it's been festering. Start today. Do one great thing for her. Tomorrow, do two. The next, three. Show her that she is the only one you'll ever love.
Only after you've won back her heart will her body follow.
2006-09-27 03:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make an effort with your wife,romance her.Re-ignite the passion.Buy her flowers,chocolates.Run her a bath and light aromatherapy candles.Join her in the bath,take a bottle of wine in there with you.Leave her little notes telling her you still are very much in love with her and find her desirable.Don't give up.Make her feel special,loved and wanted.Women don't always want a man to just jump their bones,they need everything else that goes with it.If we don't have that romance,it just makes us feel at times like rubbish.
2006-09-27 03:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your wife is not interested in sex, because she never had a good orgasm. You need to have good FOREPLAY, no "wham, bamm, thank you Ma'am"
My husband didn't pick up on this until a few years ago. Now with a help of videos, oral sex, time, his magic tongue and fingers and good foreplay, I'm ready when he is.
2006-09-27 03:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by nannygoat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she ever bring up any touchy topics all the time? Maybe she has resentments that have not been rectified over the years. Ask her.
If she won't go to counseling with you to improve the situation, divorce her. Why live your only life like that?
2006-09-27 03:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get interested in the NFL.
When the season ends get interested in the NBA. When that season ends get interested in Major League Baseball.
Take up golf.
If your wife doesn't kill you she may develop an interest in sex, but ignore it.
When both of you are ready to explode then you can find a level of activity that satisfies both of you.
2006-09-27 03:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hello dont try someone else... I want to know whether you are a romantic person... if not mistake lies in ...try being romantic... take her out alone.. go out to places.. try using your hands that touchy touchy...stuff....when my husband does that a chilling effect runs up my spine... try to be romantic ok...start talkin abt children come on do something....slowly bring her to your side....
2006-09-27 14:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by dare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some foreplay. dont harass her physically. Both divert your concentration to sports and meantime try some romantic activities.
2006-09-27 04:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by Pokkiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her sit on internet and see some **** there for 1 hr. in night daily for 15days she will be all right
2006-09-29 07:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oil your palms & enjoy!!! Atleast you will be riskfree of AIDS threat!
2006-09-27 06:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋