Is it wrong to have sex with one virgin girl and to marry another girl? is it wrong when i say to my girl friend i am going to marry another girl and she remains silent with a drop of tears in her eyes? is it wrong to leave her just because she is not a nurse and to leave her? I wish to marry another girl and i want to leave my old girl friend, she is nice but she doesnt have nursing degree and my family will allow only nurses to get married with? so i prefer to marry a nurse but my girlfriend is very kind at heart and loving.. will she curse me because i used her for the first time and for her i am her first love and to leave her to marry another girl?what i have to do naw, she used to get angry when she say this but now she will only cry and remains silent why is it so?
2006-09-26 20:02:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess the word ‘love’ doesn’t enter into your calculations.
She isn’t a nurse, so she isn’t good enough for you?
That sucks !!! And so do you !!!
It isn’t alright for you to marry someone who isn’t a nurse…
But it is alright for you to have sex with someone who isn’t a nurse.
What would happen if she got pregnant to you???
You mentioned that your girlfriend is very kind at heart and loving…
She is obviously too good for you !!!
2006-09-26 20:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong to marry someone just for their degree. How stupid is that? Your family sound like very superficial people and they don't care if the one you're going to marry is going to be a nice person or not, just as long as she has a nursing degree. She is crying because u broke her heart. How is she supposed to react? Well, I just hope that this girl you're going to marry is as sweet and loving as your girlfriend. Otherwise, take it as a curse.
2006-09-26 20:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, there is no right or wrong in love issue. Being a puppet of your parents is not that right. If you thinking of marriage, you should be an adult. So you should able to decide your own life. Moreover, You marry a person you love not a nursing degree.
2006-09-26 21:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by smurf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your marriage should be decided by you with the concent of your parents. parents should be knowlegeable about the circumstances that has taken place. I feel you are not honest. If you say to your parents what has happend. so you cannot leave her. Real parents will allow you to continue and marry your first love. if you dont. you will suffer ever. your next girl will definitely be a nagging wife for you. because she will know what type of a man you are. continue with the first love and be happy and make others happy. you will harvest good results for your soul. thank you in advannce for not leave her.
2006-09-26 20:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by gunetilake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are nuts! you have a perfect girlfriend & just becoz your family want someone with a nursing degree, you are going to dump her? you don't have balls to stand for who you love. If all the while you already knew the preference of your family, then why did you pursue her? In the first place, you should have looked for a nurse for a girlfriend. YOU ARE CRUEL!
2006-09-26 20:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by lette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is wrong. When you know you didn't have a future together, zen why did u come in her life. You shud have search for a nurse. Obviously she's very hurt and ofcourse she will curse you. Me also! I just pray to god she get someone much better than you as she deserve. And your deceit will catch up with you someday. You seap as you row.
2006-09-26 20:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask yourself first, who's the girl you love..is it you gf or the nurse u want to marry. If you love your girlfriend....you should fight for her because if you leave her for other reason..you're a complete jerk
2006-09-26 20:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by joysticks_21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a jerk and a user and your girlfriend is better off without you. She will realize this soon and find someone who appreciates her, while you will be married to a girl your family approves of.....karma is a beautiful thing.
2006-09-26 20:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love your girlfriend......send her to nursing school.
PS. I'm a nurse and we need more of them throughout the world.
Nancy
2006-09-26 20:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by speedIV5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OFCOURSE ITS WRONG DEAR,U'VE USED A VIRGIN GIRL NOW U WANA MARRY ANOTHER ONE COZ OF PROFESSION?UR SELFISH MAN?SEEMS LOVE HAS NO VALUE FOR U, UR PUTTING ASIDE LOVE FOR THE SAKE OF UR PARENTS?????WHOZ GONA LIVE WITH THE GURL?U OR UR PARENTS?WHO TOLD U'LL B HAPPY WITH A NURSE?BE A MAN CONFRONT UR FAMILY.OR U WANA MARRY ANOTHER VIRGIN JUST FOR THE SAKE OF HAVING SEX WITH A VIRGIN ONCE MORE.THIS IS SELF-SEEKING,CANT U SEE UR HURTING THIS GURL?
2006-09-26 20:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋