My 1st bf wir turning 3 years now he's a very nice guy however he spend little time on going out w/ me.My other guy, he's also nice i met him lst april i think im falling in love w/ him however there's a conflict b/w us bcoz we hv different religion, and in my religiopn we are not allowed to marry a person who's not same religion with us..very complicated situation.Ilove my 1st guy he mean d whole world to me but then, we cant have a gud relationshp w/o communication.I'm totaly confused what should i do????
2006-09-26 19:07:40 · 14 answers · asked by joysticks_21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
2, share you pig!!!!
2006-09-26 19:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok to begin with-It depends on how historical you're-if you are aroud 17 or younger(you type adore it), then you are more commonly no longer ready for intercourse. Think of what you might be throwing away........What if you bought an STD or somthing. Herpies is commonly now not so nice. And what if you bought pregnant? There goes your adolescence proper in front of you. And should you did get pregnant at your teenage years, then you will wreck your bone structure, due to the fact that consider it or no longer, your physique just isn't accomplished developing. Look, i'm not announcing that you will have to feel in abstinence or some thing, i'm just announcing wait unless you are equipped. If you're questioning whether or no longer you should have sex, then you are not competent. What you must do is inform your boyfriend that you're not able, and if he is irritated, or breaks up with you, then he does no longer deserve you. I'm hoping that this helps for your descision and you make the correct one.
2016-08-09 15:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what made you to have 2 boyfriends in the first place? i think you should really look into what you need for yourself, rather than to expect how and what you want from your both boyfriends.
its obvious that you are two timing them,and if any one of them gets to know thins, i'm sorry to say that you will never have either one of them.true that communication is very important, in every single relationship. same goes to honesty and trust. both of the guys must be putting a lot of trust in you. if yuo are not satisfied with any one of them, then let them know about it? what's the point of you keeping it low? its obvious that you are tryign to retain the relationship by playing their songs all the time, when you are not happy at certain point. make things clear by rectifyign what yuo are not satisfied about. no point going after a guy-after guys, you wont find love such like.be truthful to yourself, try to get to know what's your priority.then voice it out to your boyfriend(s).
i also would like to say that, its really hurting to have 2 guys at the same time, that would eventually, cause you a major heart break as yuo might lose both. eventually the truth will be out, if yuo don't take the proper action now. see and feel who loves you the most.go for that person. only that person can accept your flaws and make you happy.
2006-09-26 19:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are little confuse in writting also. I think the guy no.1 is better to keep cause he is with you for a long time. This shows that he is sincere with you. tell the 2nd guy that due to difference in religion you can't keep with him. I think this will solve ur problem.
Best of luck,,,,,,,,,///////
2006-09-26 19:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to marry within the same religion but it's fine to have two boyfriends...intresting. Um, go with the first guy.
2006-09-26 19:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why your breaking up with them, they should be breaking up with you, your the cheater and liar. But if you must know I say tell which ever one you choose that your having family problems and you need me time.
2006-09-26 19:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mycan Moneek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl don't be a ho, choose one and stick with and yes you are wrong for what your doing and don't say that guys do it all the time it still does not make it right.
well hopefully none of your boyfriends have aids or you for that matter otherwise your all screw.
2006-09-26 19:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by ybzcarlos1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Tell each of them about the other
2) Break it off with both of them
3) Finish growing up
4) Start again
2006-09-26 19:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by teef_au 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... that's tough... find time to think about this... don't rush into things coz u might end up with the wrong decision... think about the two guys ... ask for signs... it may help..
2006-09-26 19:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Abby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick the one who doesn't like to read.
2006-09-26 19:15:52 · answer #10 · answered by rekej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should onlydate one at a time
2006-09-26 19:11:15 · answer #11 · answered by dee d 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋