well i talk to my boyfriend and ask if he would ever love me and he just says he doesnt know it hurts me so much to hear that because i thought that our relationship was so special and we were getting somewhere i want to leave him because i know that its not going to get anywhere but i dont because we came so far and i dont know if it ok to leave him for this because he cant help his filling what am i to do he just calls me a DRAMA QUEEN IS THIS TRUE
2006-09-26 18:57:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its true this relationship was special, but to you only.
Come on, lady, don't accuse him of leading you nowhere,
didn't he lead you to his bed when he needs you?
When he needs it, you were there, right?
Problem is, if you need him, will he be there for you.
This, you will have to give it a hard and thorough soul search.
2006-09-26 19:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by davmanx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how long you've been together. If it's been over a year than he should know by now how he feels. If he's telling you that he doesn't know than that would indicate that he doesn't love you. If he doesn't love you after a year than it's unlikely that he ever will. You should find someone else.
If it's been six months to nine months then give it a little more time and see what happens. Don't nag and don't keep reminding him but in another six months or so, ask again how he feels. If he still doesn't care then start packing you bags.
I don't know why he would want to stay with you if he has no feelings for you. I also don't see why you would be a Drama Queen just because you want the person you have a relationship with to care about you. I think he's the one with the problem.
2006-09-26 19:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend appears to be afraid of committing to you. If he is with you he should be able to say that he loves you NOW.
You are right about him not being able to help his feelings, but what exactly are his feelings? You have a right to know because you are giving your love and investing in him.
Do not accept that he call you a drama queen for wanting to know what your status in the relationship is. He is manipulating you by trying to make it look like you are being unreasonable when in actual fact it is unreasonable of him to expect you to stick around if he is unable to commit to you.
2006-09-26 19:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not a drama queen,your just over thinking the relationship and moving to fast mentally. You know what,your boyfriend may love you now but men are slow to reveal things like this. So just relax yourself, take your relationship one day at a time and wait for him to say it.
2006-09-26 19:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mycan Moneek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, just let him take his time. I was in your shoes before and I know how you feel and where your coming from. How long have you been together?? Trust me, if you wait for him to be ready, when he does tell you he loves you, It will be sooooo much better if it was unexpected!! And if, he decides after some time to say no, he doesn't then leave his sorry butt, and find someone better for you that will love you for you and not for someone your pretending to be so he will. Keep your head high!! Good Luck!!!!
2006-09-26 19:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by Tinkerbell31385 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a drama queen. If he doesn't love you why are you with him? Just get it over and dump him. Is that the guy your going to spend your whole life with? I doubt it, so just get it over with, get rid of him. If he can''t say he loves you then why are you with him in the first place. You can do better then this.
2006-09-26 19:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not true. If this is important to you, then stop paying attention to him and now focus on you. You're marketable and you may need to move on. Good Luck!
2006-09-26 19:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by R W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that in to you.... If he want you, he'll drop his attitude without you or anyone change him.... you're still in the game but in the 'maybe' list . He's afraid he'll meet another girl that fits his dreams if he's committed to you. some people are just afraid of commitments..... time to move on....
2006-09-26 19:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by pheobe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is true. try concentrate on smth else than him - how about finding nice work, or some hobby, or do some sport. if u re too clingy he will leave u that's for sure
2006-09-26 19:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no leave him now it wll be better for u in the long run
2006-09-26 19:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋