let me get this straight?

Question

i met this woman 9 mo ago. in the beginning my lady would go down on me and me on her, then 6 mo later she tells me that that was just cuz she though i wanted a good time but now that we r in love she does not have to do it any more and i should understand. i thing she is full of s@#@, what do u think. also i still do her

Answer 1

I think your in trouble if you love her and that also. But theirs nothing wrong with a man liking that I guess But, some women just hate to do that! Yes, when need be we can do it and do it good. Hey, she got you! If that's bothering you so much then have a talk with her and if she tells you no then, don't bother her so much about it. I bet when you leave it alone she'll want to do it, rather then being pushed into it. It's a sexual pleasure and you both should enjoy. Maybe you could work her into the mood! Try a little pleasing her only for a few nights and then she will see that it means more to you to make her happy. Maybe then she will feel like making you happy when she is happy? Good Luck To you! And God Bless you Both!

Answer 2

I think she is right

she doesn't HAVE to do that or anything else for you

the question is, what can you do to make her want to bad enough to overcome her natural repugnance

can you charm her, flatter her, help her, support her, marry her, what?

remember, she doesn't have to let you touch her at all

I always tell women to refuse sexual relations of any kind with a man they are not married to

Women are more vulnerable in relationships and are impregnable

as soon as they have sex with a man, they have given up much and the man has given up nothing

so, I say, feel lucky if you are getting any at all
I would recommend that she follow the philateo refusal with a general no way

Answer 3

i personally think she was doing what she thought she had to do in order to have you in her life and now that she has you she doesn't want to go that anymore. She probably never liked it but thought that's what she had to do to get you. You need to explain to her where you are coming from and that is something that you enjoy doing. and if this is something that you can not get over you are only going to become less interested in having sex with her, so make sure you handle it and come to a conclusion that pleases you! good luck!

Answer 4

Oral sex is a 2 way street if you aren't recieving stop giving unless it works for you. Sounds a little flighty to me. Either you do or you don't. Unless she has a problem with your equipment. For example my husband loves spicy food, this effects the taste of the equipment.

Answer 5

It's fielder's choice.

What's the difference between a steady girlfriend and a steady job.....

After nine months your job still sucks!!!!!

Answer 6

So what she don't want to go down! Maybe she don't like doing it. Maybe she was trying to please you. If she don't want to don't make her. And as far as you still doing her, GOOD 4 VUE, that's something that you want to do. She's not making you go down, your going down because you like to do it.

Answer 7

I have to say that is crap! Stop doing it for her. Tell her you are disappointed and compliment her over it. I think she is talking crazy.

Answer 8

since she has you now, she feels liek she doesn't have to impress you. Its not right on her part. If she didn't like it, she never should have done it to start.

Answer 9

thats ****** up dude . dont get her prego and deny her for a while of any sex.

Answer 10

cut her off... if she wants you to go down... tell her to breakout the kneepads biotch!!!