but i really like him what should i do
2006-09-26 17:04:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You don't want to be with someone who is cheating on you, no matter what genger it is with. You should definitely sit down and talk about this with him. Sometimes bi-sexuals don't see it as cheating if they are with the opposite sex. I've had several friends who felt like that anyway.
I'm a married woman, and I'm bi. I would never cheat on my husband though. He does allow me to be with other women, but it was a mutual decision that we made together. If it upset him at all, then I wouldn't do it because I love and respect him to much to ever hurt him.
I know it's not going to be easy, but the two of you need to sit down and lay out some ground rules. If he isn't willing to do that then you need to move one.
2006-09-26 17:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 21:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His sexual orientation is irrelevant.
The only thing that matters is that he is a cheater. You deserve somebody who will be faithful to you and your relationship. Unless you are willing to live with a cheater you should move on.
Would you feel any better about it if he were cheating on you with a man? Of course not.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Get a better boyfriend.
2006-09-28 14:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Dustin Lochart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's cheating--do you really want to be with someone who has that little respect for you?
Call him on it, talk to him about it, see if you can salvage the relationship.
2006-09-26 17:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
cheating is cheating, regardless of sexuality. I would walk away now.
Find someone who will do the right thing by you.
2006-09-26 17:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Not_a_toothless_pirate 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
cheating is cheating,...he's just destroyed any trust in your relationship..you now have to decide how and if you're gonna deal with it.
2006-09-26 17:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I would never stay w/ someone cheating w/ me.
2006-09-26 17:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by Starcraft 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
and there lies the answer....this is why i do not get involved with bisexuals.....
2006-09-27 05:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by lovecats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you keept yourself up then he wouldnt need to resort to my fabulous self.
2006-09-26 17:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by emanuel m 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
good thats what he should be doing
2006-09-26 17:06:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋