My friends boyfriend told me to get with him. He said if i said "yes" he would break with my friend. I like him all that other stuff and its always been my dream to get with him. So should I say "yes' or should i say "no"? Help Me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-26 16:55:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you want to keep your friend, then no. If he is worth losing a friendship over, then follow your heart, not your loins. Ask yourself if you have any other friends he could end up being attracted to when you make your decision. He sounds like a Dawg to me.
2006-09-26 17:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Pundit Bandit 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont fall for that trick because once you say yes he has you underneath his spell and its like you are playing his game. He'll say that he is gonna break up with his girlfriend if you say yes to him but he actually is not. He is just trying to play you and your friend against each other. Trust me you do not want this guy to mess up your friendship...
If you was a true friend you would tell your friend what her boyfriend has said to you... she might not believe you but at least you can say that you told her... hope all this helps in some way
2006-09-26 17:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by ~DANiELLE~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, chicks before *****. Your friend should be more important that some silly high school relationship. Trust me--NEVER EVER ditch a friend for a guy, it's really not worth it. Best friends are like diamonds--they are forever. Men come and go.
If you really think that losing your friendship is worth gaining this boy, then go for it. But if you want to keep your friend, hands off!! :)
Good luck.
2006-09-26 17:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Bachman-ette 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
say yes and that's gonna make you look bad and a jerk for letting your friend down. say "no " and she'd still be your friend.. anyway, even if you like the guy, you should at least give your friend some respect. i mean, would you want someone to do the same to you? Men like your friend's boyfriend does not deserve affection from you or your friend.
2006-09-26 17:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by hott lips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i know you need help but don't be mad if i tell you something you dont want to hear that is your friend first of all and it's not cool to want to be with your friend boyfriend that is totally off limits how you think she will feel if she knew what was going on and the guy can't be too special he know you guy's are friends and he's trying to break up the friendship i think you should be the bigger person and tell him it's not cool and if you cherish the friendship you have with your friend you should tell her if he keeps trying to get with you i personally think you both don't need him around because it could get ugly and someone is definantly going to get hurt good luck to your friendship and happiness.
2006-09-26 17:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by honey bun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say No, what is more important to you a guy who is willing to betray his relationship just to be with you and could do the same to you if another girl comes along or your friendship with your friend who has been there for you, boys come and go but friends are always there for you are you willing to compromise that?....
2006-09-26 17:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any other friends? He will propose the same terms to them as soon as he breaks with your girlfriend and goes with you.
Why has it 'always been' your 'dream' to 'get with him'? Who the hell is he? I must admit, as much as I enjoy sex, my dreams have included running my own company, speaking about something I did that was wonderful to thousands of people, and inventing things and getting patents on them. Screwing one particular man never made it to the 'dream' category for me . . . it's just not a big enough goal.
Raise your expectations of yourself. Set some real goals and dream some better dreams for yourself and leave your friend's man alone.
2006-09-26 17:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by nora22000 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No help needed! You friend needs to be saying help. You are not a true friend if you even took the time to even think of writing for advice on this situation. That is your friend boyfriend so he is off limits even after they break up
Please respect yourself and your friend.
Best regards
2006-09-26 17:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no guy worth destroying a friendship over. He says he wants to get with you what does that mean? Tell him your going to get with someone else because your friend means more to you then he does.
2006-09-26 17:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay- can you hear what your saying?
A friend would not even consider this at all.
BOYS are not worth a friend or is it?
The reality is, if you say YES, you will loose both.
That's the way it always ends.
Back off and move on.
2006-09-26 17:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by Denise W 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋