here I go. I have a crush but every time I am around her I want to tell her but I can't bring my self to tell her. What could I do to help with this problem. I have been sending a lot of signes but haven't said nothing. I think if I don't soon she is going to be wondering about me. I am not feeling her out it is just that I am shy. Help Please.......
2006-09-26 16:54:13 · 5 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you know she likes girls, ask her out, already! She may be shy, too! Women just don't get encouraged to be forward in this society, or taught how to do it. Just ask her out to coffee or a movie or something.
If you don't know about her liking girls, come out yourself and see how she reacts.
2006-09-26 16:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is she gay? When people get really nervous around people they like, it just means they have hyped everything up so much in their own head and are afraid of stuffing up. Just settle down and actually talk or make your move... If she is gay then go for it if she is straight i wouldn't recommend coming on to strong. You say you have sent some signs like what? has she responded well? If you really like this girl then you have to over come your shy ness, if it was meant to be you to will end up together = )
2006-09-27 00:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by *Aus*Surfer*Girl* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, let's talk, first of all you don't have a problem, just tell her the most that could happen is that she tells you to buzz off. if that's the case it wasn't meant to be anyway. and why spend you life having friends or girl friends that don't like you for who you are. the good thing is that she may like you too and is going through the same thing that your are. now stop being shy give yourself a titty twister and go talk to her.>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> : )
2006-09-26 23:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Don't be shy-go for it-but first,is she straight? If so i would maybe be her friend for awhile-then maybe kinda' tell her-like give her hints here and there.- I guess!
2006-09-27 00:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should flirt a little and if she responds ..ask her out for coffee or something simple like that.
2006-09-27 00:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by kamsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋